You can’t always choose how you feel about someone, but you can choose the way in which you deal with it. You can decide what sort of love you are going to have with that person, and how that love will be expressed. There is no excuse for love and what you may feel compelled to do. Those choices and decisions reside solely with the perpetrator. And those choices are the ones you must live with – forever. -Response to Lucid's Challenge Forbidden Love