And I hate myself more for not noticing. I mean, how didn’t I notice? I see her every day; I’m with her all the time. All of us are, and yet not one of us saw it happening. It seemed like she was fine one minute, and passing out the next. She went from being happy and healthy to sick and depressed in what felt like a split second. But it had gone on for ages – and yet none of us noticed. (thanks to secret_soul for the banner!!)