Real is a fluid concept
Is reality fluid?
When different people witness the same event and each recall it in a different way; neither of them is wrong regarding what they claim they saw.
The way she tells it:
He planted his face on her chest. So she was within her rights to plant her foot on his crotch, hard.
And if she had, maybe done her planting more than once- well he was a super soldier, with super nuts everything; he could take it.
In her defence; the recent bout of Jane's brilliance had her hitting empty on sleep and full in coffee.
She was so going to claim Workplace Sexual Harassment! And to think, everyone thought Stark was 'the dirty old man'.
The way he would probably tell it (once he stopped cupping his well abused jewels and concluded dribbling snot and tears onto the once pristine lab corridor):
He was blaming Parker! That boy was a menace! His presence had turned Stark into a 12 year old. He had been the unfortunate intentional victim of their recent tests for rapid dissolution of the Spider-brat's webbing.
That kid had it in for him; he was going to find that spider and squash him like a- No! he did NOT do that anymore. On days like these he really considered on breaking his vow.
Now he was left rolling on the floor; and thanks to the new improved webbing- the evidence had degenerated immediately after snagging him around the ankles (which had led to his current painful condition)- he was left without evidence of his innocence.
He wondered if he could claim Senior Citizen's Abuse. Or perhaps beg Steve to bar people below the legal drinking age from the facility.
He was not above begging- the woman's heels had spikes for crying out loud- OUCH!