I have observed the behavior of aesthetically pleasing human females. Often, such persons might flaunt their beauty for the purpose of gaining the favor of their peers, and more often, their superiors. I note that the Lieutenant refrains from such behaviors.
In point of fact, it is not uncommon for the Lieutenant to attract the attentions of males in her general vicinity. It appears to be almost expected that she should respond in kind... yet she bequeaths no such response.
As I observe the Lieutenant at her station, I cannot help but note the seamlessness with which she executes her duties. Were I to indulge in metaphor, I would say her ministrations are akin to the gestures of a dancer.
She looks up from her padd and responds to the questioning officer with natural poise. She is strong. Intelligent. Aesthetically pleasing.
And she is mine.