For bonnie her mother came back only to cause problems , when bonnie asked her mother why she came back she said :
´´ I have already spent a lot of time worrying about her own problems and herself it's time to think in other person specially in my family ''.
Bonnie didn´t believe what she was saying at all, there was something that wasn't right in that answer.
And she was right.
One day bonnie came back home tired hours earlier all the gang had fought against new vampires who came to town, she was tired of having all the responsibility on her shoulders , and once again she had found her mother drunk lying on the floor of the living room with thousands of empty bottles around her, god she wanted to cry her life couldn´t be this messed up , it turned out that her mother wasn't the only one with alcohol problems , but she had to stay strong so instead she closed the door hard so that her mother could hear the noise and get up , and it worked .
Hearing the door close her mother got up and went straight to her daughter and started to Insult her and yell at her telling that she a selfish person because she wouldn't look for her when she wasn't home she wouldn´t try to find her and she wouldn't try to know about her she just didn't care about her . Bonnie couldn't believe it after she made it very clear that she doesn't wanted to know anything about her by abandoning her when she was a child.
And bonnie being the little spit fire that she was burst out telling her how she dared to stand up in front of her saying all that bullshit.
That the beginning of the discussion that would bring consequences she would remember forever and would make her life fall apart completely .