This is just my opinion, and advice on relationships. Take it or leave it. But be clean in your review please? Thank you.
To any who may be considering relationships, or marriage remember that romance is a wonderful thing, but when push comes to shove "real love" is not about infatuation. Love is like faith, or a step in the dark. Bottom line is it's a choice to be committed to that person through anything.
The marriage vows don't apply to marriage alone. In truth they apply to you as person even when you are just dating. But that is mainly because you are saying "I take you as you are, and am willing to stay committed to God, you, and your happiness." It isn't a one night stand, or something to be taken lightly. Love, Dating, and Marriage should always be taken seriously, into deep prayer, and consideration before entered into because it is not a game. It is real life.
When you are going through a hard time never blame God, and say "He is responsible for my heartache," Because he isn't. In a way you are though. You see God allows things to happen in our lives to see if we will turn to him instead of turning to someone else.
Just like with any parent we have to earn his trust. If you put a man/woman ahead of God then they become your God. You worship them with praises like "I love you with all my heart, mind, and soul." But who should that kind of praise be going to first, and for most? God, Because you can't really mean that to them unless he is first in your life.
The relationship you have with another should never take priority over your relationship with God. The moment it does it is doomed to fail. So in any relationship both of you should always put God first in everything you do. Then when a trial comes you will run to God first before you even talk to them about what's going on because in that way your lips will be guided by God, and not by your own will. Our will can fail, But God's never can.