December
21, 2003
This is
definitely the way I like to spend my winter vacation.
Packed
up in some crowded room in the middle of nowhere.
Surrounded
by people I've never met before.
Totally
alone.
Why did
they have to condemn me to this? Why'd they have to leave me
alone?
Why'd
they have to die?
It's
my fault.
It all
is.
I could have
stopped it.
If
only...
No. I told
myself I wouldn't think like that.
I'm
an orphan.
My
parents are gone.
I
have no known relatives. They're all gone.
I'm
the last one.
The
lone survivor.
Alone
in this world of hate and torment.
Why?
I
know why. Because on that fatal night, I had the stupidity to walk
out of my house with the intention of never coming back. "I've
had enough," I said. But now I know. I hadn't had nearly
enough.
They loved
me. My parents loved me.
Me.
Why
did they have to come after me? I would have been fine. They didn't
need to get in the car and look for me.
As
soon as I saw the crash I knew.
I
don't know how I did. It just happened. Like déjà vu.
I knew that it was my parents in that crash.
And
I knew that they weren't going to make it.
Merry
Christmas to me.
December 22, 2003
The
shrinks say that we need to be surrounded by our friends and family
in times of trouble. I'm supposing by "we," she means
me.
To which I
reply:
What
friends? What family?
I
have no one.
Can't
you get that through your thick head?
She
sent me away.
Said
she didn't want to see me until I was calm.
I'm
not going to be calm.
My
parents are dead.
How
can I be calm?
Someone
tried to talk to me.
It
was a boy.
I think
I've forgotten how to speak. I couldn't form a coherent sentence
when he asked my name. I just kept silent.
He
looked sorry for me.
I
don't want pity.
I
don't want help.
I
want my life back.
I
want my parents back.
December 23, 2003
That
boy talked to me again.
He
told me he knows what I'm going through.
His
parents were killed too.
And
that helped, to know I'm not alone.
I
didn't talk back. I couldn't without bursting into
tears.
They call
this place an orphanage, but to me it's just a
prison.
Keeping me
away from the world.
The
world of answers.
Maybe
this boy has the answers. I don't know. Maybe no one has the
answers. I don't know that either.
Christmas
is in 2 days.
No
one bought me anything. I know it.
No
one cares enough.
December 24, 2003
It's
Christmas Eve.
When
my parents were alive, they used to hold my hand and help me put out
the cookies and milk for Santa. When I got too old for Santa, they
helped me place last minute gifts under the tree. Secretly, I wanted
that hand to hold mine, keep me a little girl forever.
Now
I just want to see them again.
That
boy's becoming my friend.
His
name is Gordo. He found out my name from one of the
counselors.
I
haven't said a word to him. I don't need to.
He
knows.
He knows
how I'm feeling when he looks into my eyes. It's like he can see
into my inner soul, into places where I can't even
reach.
He talks to
me.
He talks to me
about sunshine, about rain, about fire, about wind. About the gentle
breeze on your face while riding a horse.
All
I ever wanted was a horse.
I
wanted to learn how to ride it, to groom it, to saddle it.
I
just wanted something I could call my own.
Every
year, for Christmas or my birthday, I'd ask for a
horse.
And every
year I was disappointed.
When
I was about 10, I gave up completely.
But
my parents didn't know that I still longed for that
horse.
This boy
takes me to places I've never gone before.
To
places I never dreamed I'd go.
I
like that.
December 25, 2003
I
talked to him.
I
was able to tell him thank you.
He
gave me a Christmas present.
My
only one.
He
bought me a teddy bear.
It
was identical to the one I owned at home.
When
I asked him how he knew, he shrugged.
"Must
be intuition." He said, smiling.
He's
always smiling.
Like
he knows something I don't.
Sometimes
it bothers me. I want to be let in on the secret too. But sometimes
its nice. Something that will always be there for me.
That's
what I thought about my parents too.
And
they're not here anymore.
I
cried today. For the first time since they left.
It
felt good.
December 26, 2003
I've
been thinking today.
Where
am I going to go from here?
They
can't keep a 13 year old cramped in a room with twenty or thirty
young kids for the rest of her life. Gordo's 15. I feel bad for
him. He's been here for over ten years, and no one's adopted
him.
"I'm used
to it." Is what he said. "Most people want to raise a young kid.
I was a terror as a young kid, so no one wanted me. Now that I've
calmed down, no one wants me."
I
saw something in his eyes. It made me sad, because it was so close to
the look I've seen in my eye in the mirror.
"I
want you." I told him. My cheeks flushed when I realized what I had
said.
He looked me
in the eye.
It's
been so long since someone has done that.
I
couldn't breathe.
He
leaned closer to me.
I
jumped up and ran.
I
was scared.
I
can't love anyone. When I love someone, they're gone.
I
don't want Jordan to leave. He can't. He's the only thing good
in my life right now.
He's
my everything.
December 27, 2003
My
shrink talked to me again.
I
don't know why she keeps trying.
I
didn't get asked to leave today. I stayed the whole time.
I
kept asking myself why.
Why
am I even here?
When
she asked me if I was angry, I told her yes.
When
she asked me who I was angry at, I told her myself.
She
tried to convince me it wasn't my fault.
It
didn't work.
It
is my fault.
I
told Gordo this. He just listened as I talked to him. The most I've
ever said in his presence.
He
didn't convince me that I was wrong. He didn't even
try.
He just
looked at me.
When
the tears dripped down my face, he held me in his arms.
It
made me cry harder.
Everything
came pouring out. The feelings of longing for my parents, for someone
to love me.
All in
the shape of tears.
And
Jordan just sat there, holding me.
December 28th,
2003
I found a
razor today.
I
didn't mean to. One of the older girls left it in the
bathroom.
I picked
it up.
It's in
my backpack.
I
remember the feeling of relief.
The
feeling that can only come when the hard, cold knife cuts into the
soft, warm skin.
That's
why the accident was my fault.
They
saw the cuts.
That's
why I shouldn't have left my house.
They
were just trying to help me.
I
stood in the bathroom for a long while, holding the razor, until
someone knocked on the door, screaming obscenities.
When
I got out, I was shaking.
I
hid it. I don't trust myself.
December 29th,
2003
Gordo's
leaving.
He's
been adopted.
He
told me that it was the only way he could ever get out.
He
said he thought that I would understand.
All
I could do was look at him.
It
reminded me of the first time he ever tried to talk to
me.
Except this
time, he was at a loss for words too.
When
he left me, I found the razor in my backpack and went into the
bathroom.
As the
scars in my arm reopened, the blood seemed to wash away all my
worries.
The
object in my hand seemed foreign. It seemed to be from some far away
place.
But as soon
as it cut into my skin, I knew it was home.
December 30th,
2003
Tomorrow's
New Year's Eve.
I
don't want to celebrate.
I'd
rather be dead.
Gordo
came and said goodbye for the last time today.
I
yelled.
I don't
even know what I was saying.
I
thought I could trust him. I thought he was the only person that
would ever be there for me.
I
thought I loved him.
But
I was right. Everyone I love ends up leaving.
My
parents.
The
dreams of that horse.
Gordo.
I
don't want to be alive. There's nothing to live for.
I
thought I could live for Gordo, but I was wrong.
December
31st, 2003
It's
almost midnight.
I've
been dreading this moment.
I
know I have to do it.
There's
nothing else to be done.
No
one will care.
Let
someone find my cold, dead body alone on the bathroom
floor.
I'm
ending it.
No more
pain.
The razor
cuts into my skin.
Deeper
this time. Deeper than it ever has been.
I
cry. Tears of pain, tears of hurt, tears of joy.
Before
the end of this night, I'll see my parents again.
I
collapse on the floor, dizzy. My arms are still bleeding openly. I
know that if I don't stop the blood, I'll die.
It's
not like I want to live.
I
cut my arm again and again, trying to make death faster. All I
succeed in doing is causing myself more pain.
I
can feel the end coming. The end of my
pain.
Goodbye.
Happy
New Year.
