Brian asked a girl out for the Homecoming dance and he has asked each Breakfast Club member for advice.
Bender: "Alright, first of all, don't drink and drive. That shit's dangerous." I don't have a license. My parents are driving us. "Okay, no worries there. The first thing to remember is that No means No. Some guys will try to tell you Keep at it. No. That's not the way to do it. She says No? No to anything, you name it, a kiss, whatever. Okay, tell her Sure sweetheart, I respect you, only if you feel comfortable, only as far as you want. Gain her trust. Now the trick is, get her to admit something feels good. See, things do feel good, they can't help it, but they WANT to say no. Never ask if they want to do something, ask how it feels. But dude, if she does say No, that's it. It means No. Back up a step. You can try another night. But DON'T, absolutely DO NOT kiss and tell. If she wants it on the sly, keep your mouth shut. Some of my best girlfriends, no one knows about. You'd be surprised who will do what."
Claire: "I think what every girl wants is to feel special. Like she's the only girl in the world for you. And she should be. Don't ask her out if you don't feel that way. Treat her with respect. Show how much she means to you, flowers, a nice restaurant, holding doors for her. Holding hands is under-rated. Nothing is more romantic than holding hands in the moonlight. If you want to kiss her, ask first. And don't suck her face. A nice kiss on the cheek is a good place to start."
Andy: "Don't try to impress her, that always backfires. Ask her questions if you don't know what to say. Try not to talk about yourself. Be gentle with her, she doesn't want a wrestling match. Most important, always listen to her. A good listener wins their hearts every time."
Allison: "Are you asking me out?" No. "Good, Andy already asked me out. If he hadn't I would have said Yes. I've never been on a date, but I think doing what you feel is most important in any situation. Always be yourself. If she doesn't like you the way you are, she doesn't like you."