This is from the "Slasher's Guide to Gay Sex" written by a gay man:

1)It hurts the uke if he is fucked after he comes (like in oral sex or a hand job)…even if he is relaxed. Men cannot be like women and be in the mood right away…that's the reason it hurts more. So I'm going to make sure the top comes first most of the time and then finish the bottom, unless he is being sadistic. Or I might make them come together or the top a second or so later.

2)After oral sex, unless he is a virgin the man is not completely satisfied with it….so it is better to go with partial oral sex during a full-sex lemon.

3)Bottom and top have to hold in or control their pleasure before letting it build up.

4)Prostate is an erectile gland. It cannot be reached with any finger but the middle and does not give pleasure the moment it is touched. It needs to be stimulated as well.

5)Teenagers cannot have blinding orgasms since they are too hormonal and clumsy…in men that is or that is what I read.

6)Being in balls deep is uncomfortable for the uke…since the prostate is three inches within him and the average cock is six inches. Width matters more. So the seme may not go all the way in, but this will not take away from the sex.

I found this on a story that I had read and thought that everyone should read it. Sorry if this bothers anyone, I just thought I should put it out there for all those who hadn't read this.

For those few that have not read anime lemons or are new to this, the uke is the bottom or the one that is penetrated, and the seme is the top or the one who does the penetrating.