Alright so I found this secret metaphor in the iLove You, and I don't think there is any reason to give up yet!

Spencer-Does the monkey make it to Banana Land?

Jenna-It isn't about if he makes it to Banana land , it is about all that he learns on the journey.

S-Does he make it to Banana Land!

J-Yes!

I think this is a metaphor for the Seddie relationship. They have learned a lot, but they will make it to Banana Land eventually.(Start to date)

More proof- Carly said Sam is like a wild chimp.

Dan is setting up Seddie! Just wait it will come!