Dear Jennifer,
I'm writing this letter as both an apology and explanation
I never thought I would be such a cliché
"Sorry for what I did when I was drunk"
It feels absurd, but here we are
I'm sorry about what happened between you and Will
I'm sorrier about my actions afterwards
It was meant to be a way to forget
The team wanting to escape the horror of our everyday
And also try to lessen your pain caused by your breakup
I only meant to go to the bathroom
I blame the bar
I'm sure their hallways were too narrow for proper bathroom navigation
But I haven't found anything regulatory regarding this
I should have just squeezed on past you and kept on walking
But I didn't
And you were crying alone and I was feeling awkward but when you looked up at me…
Did you know that "butterflies" are actually a real thing,
It's actually adrenaline brought on by stress
So I guess I can blame the adrenaline as well
I kissed you and then I ran
I haven't been to work since that night
I've ignored every call I've received, including the ones from you
I've racked my brain trying to come up with a possible solution
I guess what I'm really trying to say in my apology note is that
I'm not really all that sorry
What I'm trying to say JJ, is that I've always had that stressed-induced adrenaline
From the moment I met you to right now just thinking about you
You've always gotten to me in that way
And now I hold myself accountable for not telling you
And wonder if it was really out of intelligence or ignorance
I was worried about us being on the same team
I was worried about how out of my league you truly are
I was worried about my mother's genetic legacy
And how I didn't want to put anyone through that happening to me
I was worried
So I pushed my feelings away, because that is what I do
And I suffered in silence.
I was happy for you, every step of the way, JJ.
When you found Will, when you had Henry, when you were married
Because even thought I was miserable
I knew you were happy
And your happiness means the world to me
So I tried to ignore the fluttering in my gut
That still happened even if I just caught a glance of you
I guess alcohol and sadness were the key to my undoing.
I don't even know if you kissed me back
I was so wrapped up in the moment
First time in my life my mind wasn't going a mile a minute
For the first time in my life I felt nothing but bliss and being in the moment
With my lips pressed against yours
I'm an atheist but I know what heaven feels like, every time I think of you.
I just needed to get this out and tell you how I feel
First and foremost, I don't want to lose your friendship
But for the first time in my life, I had to take a chance
No matter how you feel towards me
I can return to being friends and be alright
But I could never feel at peace with myself without telling you how you make me feel.
Reid
