This story will contain DDLG and as such I'd ask my readers to read this and please abide by it. This lifestyle is for adults. Meaning this lifestyle is for adults of the age of 18 and above. I say this first and foremost because this lifestyle is not about minors or people who are underage. It is about two consenting adults and we do not want minors getting hurt. With that being said please don't read this story if your not 18 or over. If I am made aware in comments or messages that underage people are reading this I will remove the story.
DDlg stands for Daddy Dom/little girl and is a subcategory of BDSM. Upon hearing that many people may think that this is some horrible, twisted, and disgusting form of pedophilia and/or incest, however, that simply is NOT the case. An adult person having sex with a child, is disgusting and wrong, I say anyone who would do something like that to a child needs to face justice immediately and get punished for what they've done. I believe those people are sick and wrong for hurting children. This lifestyle is not about that at all. It is also not incestous at all. It is NOT a relationship with a daughter and father or mother and son. It is two consenting adults in a relationship. So now that you know what DDlg is NOT, I will tell you what it IS.
DDlg is a loving and consensual relationship between two adults, in which one party is the caregiver or "Daddy" and the other is the "little." in this relationship, the daddy will most often provide a strong loving, nurturing, caring, safe space for their littles to explore this side of themselves freely. When in little space a little may engage in all sorts of activities and the daddy/mommy is there to love and respect them. The love and care that Daddies and littles show each other often times creates a very strong and unique bond that can be more amazing than and unlike any other relationship one has ever experienced. What is the most important to remember is that DDlg is a consensual relationship between two adults. This type of relationship can mean different things to different people. One thing I'd like to make clear, is that most people who are Littles don't always have " Daddy issues " as many would assume.
They will help them to be the best person that they can be for themselves. Daddy/Mommy is there to support them every step of the way and not out to just make them a better submissive for themselves. Daddys/Mommys try to do their very best to prepare their littles for whatever life has to bring no matter how much they want to pull them close and protect them from the outside world. Daddys/Mommys will become protectors, mentors, teachers, guides, and lovers. They offer exactly what the little needs the most, acceptance and unconditional love.
Daddys/Mommys earn great trust and respect from their littles by listening to all of their little's hopes, fears and concerns without calling them silly. They will help to comfort, and confront each one of them with support and love. As this trust and respect grows, the little will open up more of themselves to the Daddy/Mommy.
Daddys/Mommys who are serious about their littles will never be afraid to play with you, they will join you in your favorite activities and provide you with a safe space to explore your little space. They will also help you to explore any kinks and other lifestyle related things that you are interested in, in a safe way. Realizing that they should never demand, coerce, or manipulate you into anything that you do not want to do.