How am I ever going to get my parents head straight that I am fine without a fiancé. They are so dense that they don't get I would rather be alone. I am still a child yet they expect me to love a person that was just born to one of the friends who doesn't even know that she is yet to be engaged. Why does everything have to be this way in the Taloni tribe. The youngest is capable of finding love themselves; they do not parents to find their supposed spouse. While I do not believe this can be happening to me, I do know that I do not want to be in an arranged marriage. Why do they not take that seriously? This girl does not want to be an arranged marriage either I presume. I want my own spouse to be my own decision. They want me to have a childhood but yet they keep trying to find a girl that I can love. So far they haven't found anyone yet but from what it sounds like this newborn is it from my parents and her parents. They don't realize that this will make me grow up faster while Veronica can have her childhood and find a man for herself. This tradition is very two faced. Either have it for all, those who ask, or not at all. Also guessing the correct gender for one child does not mean we are meant to marry.