Please R&R
I do not own harry potter or any of the characters. They belong to jk rowling. But this story doesn't actually mention lily's name so it could be about anyone. I just wrote it about lily.
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She wants
somebody to know her, to know who she is. Even though at this point
in her life, she doesn't not know who she is. She thinks that she
might be asking other people to define her, to tell her who she is.
Maybe she doesn't want figure it out for herself, because that's too
difficult and she just really doesn't know how to do that. She
doesn't know how to integrate herself, because she really feels like
she has multiple personalities. It feels like a little child is
taking over, a little child who is scared to death of what she
doesn't know and doesn't want to try new things. She fears that if
she fails, other people will notice what a loser she really is. That
she is so incompetent that she will fail at anything that she tries.
She doesn't want to confirm what everybody has been thinking all
along. Which is that everybody thinks she's so ugly, so dumb, that
she can't do anything right. Her strongest inner voice that tells her
so.
But she has another little voice that tells her that
people do not really think that she is a loser, that most of them
like her and love her. All the other stuff is just in her head. But
that little voice gets lost somewhere, it's drowned out by the other
voice that just won't leave her alone.
In fact she seems to
not want to let go of this. Maybe she doesn't really want to deal
with herself. Maybe she's taking the easy way out as she always does.
Trying to hide from herself, which is something that isn't possible.
Which she found out and thought that she was dealing with it. But she
and others wonder if this is really what she wants. Maybe she wants
to stay like this, God only knows why. She is miserable, she wants to
be like this. That's what she is beginning to understand. That this
is of her own doing, she and she alone makes the choices that make
her like this.
She herself chooses to hide from the world,
hoping that maybe the world will just leave her alone. That maybe all
the people will stop asking her to do things which scare her to
death, things that she might fail at. Which will make everyone notice
her and all her faults and stupidities.
She doesn't want to do
things, because deep down she thinks that if she doesn't do anything
she can't get hurt. Maybe she even believes (or wants to believe)
that this is the way she will get the happiness that she dreams of.
But she knows. She knows this is not the way. This is not the way
that she is going to get it. If she ever wants to get something that
she wants she will have to go get it herself. But she doesn't go
after the things she wants. She doesn't even really know what she
wants. She just sits, waits and dreams of the life she wants, but
doesn't think she deserves and is never going to get. She doesn't
believe that she has the strength, the talent and the will to do
anything worth while.
Why can't she just live her life without
worrying about what other people think of her. She wonders if she is
ever going to be able to do that. Can she set herself free, she looks
at the birds outside and she is jealous of them. She wants to be a
bird, fly.
She feels like she's having a bad dream and she
prays that somebody will come along and wake her up. And she will
wake to find herself living the life that she wants and dreams of.
But she knows in her head that this is not the case and that makes
her want to give up and just crawl in a hole somewhere and just
disappear. Escape from her personal hell. How desperately she wishes
that she could just disappear. She feels like a totally weak person,
who is running away from all her stuff. Which she is, but really she
doesn't know what to do. Or is too afraid to do anything.
She
has this feeling of emptiness, like there is something missing in her
life. She wonders how it happened, has she always been like this? She
tries to remember, but her memory fails her. Her only defence is to
run away and act like there is nothing wrong. She is trying to
change, at least she thinks she is. She is not really sure about
anything, does she really want to change? She can't stop thinking
about it. She wants to stop thinking and just do. But how?
