"Today I marry my best friend. No, too cliché. Our paths have finally merged. That's worse. Enemies became friends, became lovers, and became soul mates. No you don't become soul mates you just are. Gods this is hard. Marriage is for growing and sharing and I want to share everything and grow old with you. And now I'm writing a card. I'm glad you haven't realized how you deserve so much more than me. That's self destructive. Oh hell. Kathryn, I love you and after all the no's, I thank all the gods above me that you finally said yes."