Credit goes to Babylon 5, I thought I could try my hand at revising the ending to B5 for ME3 and tweak it, but I in no way represent B5... I have romanced Tali'Zorah...

Shepard chose destroy ending, which ultimately lead to his death, I wish he could have lived, but honestly, his sacrifice paved the way for a new hope.

(c) JMS (B5's creator) (no plagarism intended, just wanted to materialize my thoughts about how ME3 ended)

After the speech, then comes the extended cut for destroy for every good thing paragon that shepard did, his ems is above to where he could live, but again a honorable sacrifice.

Liara T'soni: The Citadel was the last of the Mass Relay stations. There would never be another like it. It changed the future and it changed us. It taught us that we have to create the future or others will do it for us (create our future or others will take it from us). It showed us that we have to care (defend, and work together) for one another, because if we don't, who will? And that true strength sometimes comes from the most unlikely places. Mostly, though, I think it gave us hope, that there can always be new beginnings. Even for beings like us.
Liara T'soni: As for Tali, every morning for as long as she lived on her homeworld [Rannoch], she got up before dawn and watched the sun come up (sunrise).

fan service ending

Liara T'soni: The Citadel was the last of the Mass Relay stations. There would never be another like it. It changed the future and it changed us. It taught us that we have to create the future or others will do it for us (create our future or others will take it from us). It showed us that we have to care (defend, and work together) for one another, because if we don't, who will? And that true strength sometimes comes from the most unlikely places. Mostly, though, I think it gave us hope, that there can always be new beginnings. Even for beings like us.
Liara T'soni: As for Tali, every morning for as long as she lived with her partner on her Rannoch, she got up before dawn and watched the sun come up with him on the porch swing.

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