Heres the thing. theres moments in life that make you. that set the course of who your going to be. sometime they're little subtle moments. sometimes... they're not. Bottom line is. even when you see them coming... your not ready, for the big moments. no one asks for they're life to change. not really. ut it does. So what are we? helppless? puppets? no. The big moments they're going to happen. But it's what you do after that counts. thats when you find out who you are.