Ring Rat:

A female (not necessarily underage) who attends professional wrestling shows, and attempts to sleep with crew members to get to the wrestlers, or sometimes the wrestlers themselves. A groupie, in plainer terms.

Hey! My name is Ashley R.; please excuse me just giving my last initial and not my full last name, but I prefer to keep parts of my life separate from each other. Especially since I'm going to be sharing such personal stories with all of you; I mean I'm not really sure I want them getting back to my mother and father, you know? Anyways; now that I've introduced myself, let me tell you about the life I live. It's the life none of my family knows I live; my family only knows that I work as a travel nurse, basically I work for an agency who sets me up with nursing jobs for a certain amount of time all around the country. I make amazing money doing it and get to see the country; but that's not the only reason I do it. I decided to start working as a travel nurse so that I could better live my secret life.

I'm a "Ring Rat"; personally I detest that term, to me that sounds like I'm low class and nasty. I will admit; there are some women living the same life as I do, who are both of those things. I don't walk around with my breasts hanging out or my ass showing, like some of them do; if that's how they choose to get attention, who am I to judge. It's just not how I handle myself. I have a few close friends in the life who feel the same way I do, if you look like a prostitute; don't be surprised if you're treated like one. The funny part is; those are the same women who will go on social media sites and bash the wrestler they were with because "all he was interested in was fucking". Really; that came as a shock to you? My friends and I prefer to dress "sexy" not "trashy"; for example, an outfit I would go out in would be a nice black dress that covers everything but does hug my curves and black heels. I would never be caught out in short shorts and a low cut tank top. What happened to the idea of things being left up to the imagination? If my ass and breasts are hanging out already; it's like giving them a free show. The way I choose to dress on the other hand; the man can see I have a nice body, but they get the excitement of unwrapping me like a Christmas present. It's a surprise! That being said, I suppose some people still would consider me a whore because I do sleep with different men. Ok; call me a whore, I'm perfectly fine with the way I live my life. For anyone reading my story who doesn't know what a "Ring Rat" is; we're basically groupies but instead of following around a band, we follow professional wrestlers. I feel like I should pause for a moment to clarify a few things: First, I do not get paid for sex; Secondly, I always practice safe sex; Third, I don't sleep with every wrestler I meet and Finally, I do not hang out outside the arenas or stalk them at their hotels. Another personal rule of mine is that I stay way away from the independent circuit guys; at least I do now, I broke that rule one time. It turns out that the one time I broke that rule years ago when I first got into this lifestyle; turned out really well for me, I'll come back to that subject later.

Why do I stay away from the "Indies"? Simple; there are some really questionable guys there! I'm not saying they are all bad; but there are some who have reputations for things like going after underage girls. There are others who are really not very careful in the protection area and could have certain "reminders" thanks to the "Rats" they have slept with. Now; there are some guys in the big companies who have similar issues, so I hate to make it sound like the "Indies" are the only place that has them. There just seems to be more of them in the "Indies". I have a theory on why that seems to be true; if you work for one the big companies, you have a lot more to lose and more ways to get caught. The WWE is not going to keep you employed if you are caught with an underage girl; and if suddenly a bitter woman goes to the media (even social media) and starts talking about how you gave her a STD, that is bad press for the company as well. Where the WWE does a lot of media events; their superstars are involved in charities and even staring in movies now, it's a lot harder for the superstars to not get caught if they are doing something wrong.

I'm sure you are all probably wondering how I meet the wrestlers I sleep with if I am not stalking their hotels or standing outside the arenas hoping to get noticed. Most of the guys like to go out after their shows. Local bars, Nightclubs, Sports bars are good places to see them and believe it or not, I even met a few at a bowling alley once. Then it's exactly like you were trying to meet a regular person someplace. Flirting, having conversations with them, buying them a drink or having them approach you. Quite honestly; there are wrestlers I have met that I've just gotten to know, we've become nothing more than friends. Some of the guys are just looking to meet cool people to hang around with and aren't interested in having sex at all; I enjoy that to.

Married or "In relationship" wrestlers; what can I say? There are guys on the road that are faithful to their wives or girlfriends and then there are those who aren't. I understand why wives and girlfriends dislike women like me. If I were in their shoes; I would be upset that my significant other was cheating on me to. I won't claim that I have never slept with a wrestler who was married or had a girlfriend; I'm guilty of it. A guy can lie about being single. If he's out looking for some company, he can take the ring off. I'm not trying to justify my actions; please don't misunderstand, however it takes two people to cheat. I know some of the superstars who are really good guys; they might chat with a woman, maybe buy them a drink, but go back to their hotels alone and care about their families. Perfect example of that is Roman Reigns. Roman is such a sweet guy; I've hung around with him many times. We've had great conversations; he's bought a round of drinks for the group before, but he has never crossed the line. Trust me; word gets around among those of us living this lifestyle, if he had been with anyone it would get around. During one of the conversations I had with Roman; I was talking about my niece and I happened to show him a picture of her, he then pulled his wallet out and showed me a picture of his daughter. You could just tell from the way he talked that his wife and daughter were his whole world. I would never attempt to get a superstar who was faithful like Roman, to cheat; I draw the line there.

So now you know a little about me and my secret life; I'm sure you all are on the edge of your seat waiting to hear the "good stuff", the dirt. I have plenty of it and I promise to share some of it with you. I especially want to share the story from earlier about the one time I had sex with a guy in the Indies and how that has turned out. Oh! Sorry, my cell phone just went off! Speaking of the devil, he just sent me a text! He wants to meet up with me in twenty minutes; so I'm afraid I'm going to have to leave you in suspense for now!