20 Orgy Sex Tips for the Uninitiated

Orgies are not at all like what you see in Porn flicks. In fact, they are often more muted and less action-packed.

Do not do something you are not relaxed with. If you do not wish to be dual penetrated or kissed or jerked off, you can just say no.

Shit happens literally, so if there is a chance you are going to have anal penetration, ensure you douche correctly beforehand.

Definitely, know your safe words.

Stimulation overload can completely happen, and it is not forever fun, so don't hesitate to take a break if you require one.

Do not let your defined sexuality get in the way. This is your chance to explore without judgment.

Do not let what others think or what they do get in your head. No one is judging you if there are there too.

You will know pretty quickly if the orgy is a correct fit for you, so trust your gut feelings. You can leave anytime.

Know that partaking in an orgy is does not mean that you will be having such type of sex forever. It may be just a one-off thing and that's fine too.

If you are feeling left out, say something. You need to be in charge of your experiences at an orgy.

Ask yourself if you will still be approving of this orgy experience in a month, a week or even years down the line.

Do not assume they will have condoms, please bring your own.

If you go with a boyfriend/husband/lover, figure out if you are actually ok with watching your partner fool around with others.

Know your STD level and those around you. Be responsible.

With that said, always do consent check-ins before you begin.

Being part of an orgy means you may not be attracted to all present, but try not to let that ruin it for.

Ensure you and the other people involved actually wish to have group sex.

Bodies are weird and people are awkward, so it is 100 percent OK to laugh during sex.

And of course, know that orgies will be much messier, exhausting and smellier than you would ever expect.

Make sure all those in attendance are of legal age, verify this. Otherwise, you could face a huge legal shit storm after.