2013
Hannah Alvarez
The Romance Readers
4/14/2013
WHY CAN'T I GET OVER HIM?
Why did it have to be
HIM?
Ok so I'm guessing that you don't want to listen to my story. Well even if you don't I'm going to tell you any way.
I was foolish to fall in love with him in the first place. Now, I can't even do my school work or ride home from school without him on my mind. I don't get it! Why can't I get over him? Sometimes when you like a boy, us, which means girls, can go overboard on the love thing. You start falling in love with a guy that you really like, then you date him, and lastly he breaks your heart. Well you try to move on, but that doesn't work out for us girls very well. That guy that just broke your heart was your one true love. Well my one true love is Ethan Moore! I know it is hard to get over him because a) you loved him to much to let him go and, b) he never liked you, but c) he went out with you and d) then he broke your heart so thoroughly that you cried for two weeks.
Well, let me just tell you now before your heart gets shattered into a million pieces again. GUYS ARE NOT WORTH IT! Guys don't deserve your heart and your love, if they don't love you for who you are or who you will become in the future. I wouldn't let them steal your love from the one true person/guy that will love you in any way, shape, or form you are in. So many girls make mistakes, by choosing the guy that maybe popular in school and the boy won't even treat them with kindness, generosity, love, forgiveness, and care. We girls need to show some boys some manners on how to treat girls/ladies. Guys show more respect for us. We don't like boys that a) don't have manners b) are not kind c) judge people too quickly d) and won't even show some respect. So ladies I'm going to show you a small cycle graph of relationships:
So basically you're heart will be completely broken. Sometimes we girls need to think before we get ahead of ourselves on the whole dating thing. I mean that we need to make sure that we do not make a mistake on picking the wrong guy for you. Think before you like. First of all, you need to look at his characteristics. Look at what you two have in common; make sure he has a relationship with GOD! That is one of the most important things he needs to have in his life. GOD! Make sure you two agree on things. You need to be very careful on these things. Be wise on what you look for in a guy. Secondly, never share your secrets with him! NEVER! Don't share your secrets with him, unless you fully trust him with it! Think twice before you open your mouth. If you can't trust him then you need him to prove that you can trust him. You need to test him, test his trust. Also, always have a backup plan and supporters. Make sure you have friends you can trust to help you. Never take on these relationships alone. It is bad to take on a relationship alone, because you will always need backup in these types of situation.