Dear Elena,
My ex boyfriend decided that he wanted to be apart of my life again after not talking for almost a year. The thing is he decided to start talking after i got a new boyfriend. We started talking about stupid things we use to always talk about before and when we were dating. Then he started to compliment me, then making me laugh, and then flirting non-stop. He got engaged almost 6 months ago and he just told me a few days ago that he was still in love with me. I still have feelings for him, but i don't trust him anymore and i want to give my current boyfriend a chance to see if we could go anywhere. What would be your advice to help me let him know that i need time to process everything. Also i wanted to tell my current boyfriend what is going on since they do know each other, how can i let him know gently what has been happening.
Please let me know your opinion.
MugglebornGleek4life(A HUGE TVD Fan)
Dear MugglebornGleek4life
Trying to juggle two men you care that deeply for is HARD, and I can empathise with your situation. However I agree with you when you say that your current boyfriend deserves an honest chance to make you happy and unfortunately that may not be possible with your ex still in your life, particularly if that ex is engaged. The engagement does complicate matters. Have you asked him why he got engaged if he was still in love with you? I don't think your relationship with your ex is necessarily healthy for either of you and my advice would be to try to maintain some distance. I'm not saying you shouldn't ever talk to him, but maybe try to back off a little to give both of you space to focus on your current should understand if you just tell it to him straight Dwelling on the past will only hurt your future. If you can't trust this man then there is no hope for a future with him. Trust and communication is a very important part of any relationship which is why you should tell your current boyfriend that you used to date this man, he does have a right to know after all and he needs to know that you'll be honest with him no matter how hard it might be. In saying all of this however, I am in no position to tell you what to be 's not like my own relationships are working out to well at the moment either. Good luck with everything and you can always you can write back if you need someone to talk to.
Yours sincerely
Elena Gilbert
Dear Damon,
my question for you is, why don't you like Taylor Swift or Twilight? Just curious. BTW, good luck with Elena. I really hope you two get together, because its obvious you guys belong together! :)) P.S. I think your the best vampire ever (and hottest) and you can drink my blood anytime! LOL. :)
October baby
Dear October baby
I'm a guy baby. And as a guy Taylor Swift is a little bit too…what's the word? Girly, for my tastes with all the lovesick, gooey, love letters. I mean it's bearable and I will admit I am able to sit through a few tracks off the fearless album without flinching if it is a means of impressing a pretty blonde sorority/cheerleader girl (Caroline would always take it too far though. I had to keep compelling her to turn it off.). However I am exceedingly grateful that Elena doesn't really listen to her either. And as for Twilight, sparkling vampires that never eat people and 110 year old virgins? I mean come on! Did Stefan comply her to write that story? Anne Rice was far more accurate.
Damon
P.S. Elena and I would like to thank you for your support.
P.P.S I think I like you baby :)