Chapter 3

Meanwhile, you might have been wondering what was Jeanette up to.

You're about to find out…

"Hey, Phil?" a dazed Jeanette asked seductively.

Phillip lowered his gaze. "Yes? What is it?"

"How do you do it?"

"Do what? This?"

Then he proceeded to make out with her again.

2 hours later

"That's enough. Miss Miller might scold me again if I kept you up," Phil said.

Jeanette wished it could have gone on, but she nodded. "Ok, drive me home."

After 5 minutes of driving, they finally arrived.

"See you at school!" Jeanette said, her voice strangely tinged with a sweet tone.

As she walked to her porch, she saw a silhouetted figure sitting on the chair. Approaching cautiously, she was surprised when she saw that it was just Simon.

"So, how was your date?" Simon asked her.

"Much better than you, obviously…" she said in an icy tone.

"Well, that's fine with me. I'm just glad you finally found your TRUE LOVE," he said, emphasizing on the true part.

"Oh" she replied, taken aback.

Meanwhile, she was thinking:

"He seemed unaffected by the matter. What's gotten into him? And he seems changed. But I'd better not make any hasty decisions."

Then she went inside, but not before saying a fleeting goodnight to Simon.

"That went well," Simon said to himself.

Then, suddenly, his ears perked up as he heard a rustling nearby.

"Who's there?" he asked, scanning the area for the source of the sound.

No reply.

"Come on out; I already heard you," he said cautiously.

And with that said, Alvin and Brittany rolled out of the bush they were hiding in, laughing all the while.

"Stop it, Alvin!" Brittany giggled in between her fits.

"Not until you surrender!" he replied.

Simon slapped his forehead."Why am I stuck with you two dolts? Come on, let's go home."

As they walked home, Alvin saw a group of girls walking on the sidewalk.

"Hey, check it out! Chicks at twelve o'clock!" he whistled.

"Okay… I'll just ignore them and go on home," Simon said, hesitantly.

"And let another opportunity to learn slip from your grasp? Not on my watch, you don't," said Alvin, pulling Simon by the ear towards the girls.

"Ow, stop, that hurts!" he exclaimed.

"Now, watch how I do it. Meanwhile, why don't you check out the opening section of the crash course booklet I gave you?"

And with that said, he and Brittany proceeded to approach the group.

Simon rifled through the pages and found what he was looking for.

"Ah. Here it is."

Principals of Approaching

An opener is necessary for all interactions with a woman. Whenever you see the girl that you want to have the wildest night of steamy sex with, what do you do?

You use an opener on her!

If you never open the girl, you will ALWAYS have a 0% success rate and never get anywhere with girls.

Now we will cover the parts of opening and approaching that you need to have in place, and I will demonstrate how essential they are and why they work.

Interest

When the AFC male approaches a girl or girls that he has an interest in, she will always know what he is up to, what he wants, and how she is going to get away from this loser.

This is because he has telegraphed his interest; he's made it obvious what his intentions are with his signals and words. By doing this, he puts the woman on her guard, and her "bitch shields" go up.

As a result, she becomes unreceptive to talking to this man, since he is like all of the other annoying losers who hit on her every day. This also raises the girl's social value, and gives her more power, which will hurt you later down the road in later interactions with this girl.

By now, you should be wondering, "How can I avoid this trap like the plague?" It's simple.

Instead of showing interest, use the concept of "active disinterest." When a guy says something to a girl like, "Hey there hot ass," he is being extremely aggressive and doing nothing to conceal his interest for that girl. When a guy says something to the tune of, "Hi, you look extremely radiant tonight…may I please buy you a drink," he is coming off like the biggest AFC wimp in the universe, but still doing nothing to hide his intentions with that girl.

You should act the part of Switzerland and always be neutral when you open.

Don't be too aggressive, and don't be too wimpy. This will give you the most possible options for directing the interaction whichever way you want and will also not put girl's guard up.

However, you can't just sit there and be boring. You must engage the girl in an ambiguous and interesting way. The ideal goal is to have her suspect that you are interested, but have her unable to tell for sure.

This will give you the chance to take her over the edge, but also leaves you on her mind as the "challenge"; the guy who's different and not drooling over her to begin with.

Openers

An opener is beginning a conversation with a set or single girl that you are going to be interacting with.

In this section, I won't cover the openers themselves. Instead, I will discuss four things that make openers as effective as they possibly can be.

Intruders

When you are going about your daily travels and life, you are within your own personal bubble. Someone can't just go up to you and start talking with you mid-conversation; if they do, you'd think they are a complete freak.

That's because of your personal bubble, and the same thing holds true when you are approaching women. This is where you must use an intruder, so you can get into that girl's personal bubble in a way that feels natural.

Common Intruders

• Hey: There are many ways you can use the intruder "Hey."

It requires that the target interact with you and can be used with either a "Hey there," or something more forceful, such as, "HEY!" It's also not as much of a formal greeting as is the intruder "Hi."

• Yo: The intruder "Yo" is a completely informal greeting, and is used for more fun situations.

"Yo" also works very well when you're opening a group, and can be used forcefully if you wish.

• Hi: "Hi" is much more of a formal greeting than an intruder such as "Yo" or "Hey." The intruder "Hi" works best in quieter, more formal situations or in a situation where eye contact has already been made. Using "Hi" in a forceful way would be very ineffective.

• Hold it: "Hold it" is an extremely forceful intruder, and should only be used in a forceful manner, or it will come off very badly.

It works best when your target is walking or doing some other activity that you need them to stop doing so you can run your opener.

Timing

It is always best to approach as quickly as you can after you find your target or targets! The main reason for this is that the longer you wait, the more you will want to stay in your comfort zone and not approach.

Your mind will start to doubt the decision to approach, and you will come up with false reasons and excuses to stay behind. I've seen many targets leave while guys were going through this debating stage, and that should never happen.

If the girl happens to see you eying her and waiting for an eternity before approaching, she will think that you're either strange or just AFC.

Don't give fear time to set in, don't allow her the chance to leave, and don't let her witness you being an AFC loser. Just go!

Tonality

Tonality is something that can easily be overlooked while approaching women, but is something that can also have a great effect, and you control whether that effect is positive or negative.

Imagine a peaceful song being sung to you by your favourite artist.

Now, imagine a shrill police siren going off right next to your throbbing head.

Which one was more pleasant?

Tonality has more of an impact then we are aware of, and when we become aware of it, we can then use it to our advantage.

Women are more responsive to a man with deep tonality, which is how much your voice resonates. The pitch is pleasing to them, but it is also a sign of sexy confidence. You do not have to have a "deep voice" to have deep tonality.

In order to achieve the desired deep tonality, speak from your diaphragm instead of your throat. To see if you are doing this properly, place your hand flat on your chest, and if you are speaking from your diaphragm, you can actually feel your chest vibrate.

Another thing to keep in mind with your voice is volume, BE LOUD! If you are the most interesting story-teller in the world, but your audience can't hear you, it will do you no good.

Being loud is another alpha trait that displays the attractive confidence you are looking for, but is also necessary to be heard. Speaking softly is a sign of insecurity and also a major demonstration of lower value.

Body Language during the Approach

No, you're not seeing double. We're back on the ever-important subject of body language, but this time, it is about how your body language should be during the actual approach.

It is always important to be seen as a fun, outgoing, interesting person, but also not to convey your interest in them when you are approaching any girl. Since we know this, you must now learn how to convey that through your body language.

When you are walking up to your target or targets, avoid taking a straight line approach as most guys do. It comes across as very aggressive, and girls often put their defences up before you even open your mouth.

Instead, approach from an angle and also subtly point your shoulder at your target to avoid the confrontational dead-on angle. This gives you a much less threatening presence.

While in conversation, you want to have your body language tell them that you are cool, relaxed, somewhat uninterested, and in control. Put the majority of your weight on your back foot, keep your shoulders back, and put your chest out a little bit.

Keep your feet shoulder-length apart, and SMILE! It's much easier to recover from being too happy than to recover from being a boring AFC without a pulse.

Conclusion

This is an overview of what you need to know when dealing with the basics of a successful approach.

Apply all of these steps, learn why they work in order to make them better, make more of your own, and you will see your rate of success skyrocket high!

Simon rolled his eyes. "Yeah, that's helpful, alright."

"And here's my number. I can't wait to meet this boy you're talking about," one female said with a wink.

As the group of girls left, Alvin was all grins. "That went well."

"And you couldn't have done it without my help," Brittany added.

"Could do!"

"Could not!"

"Could do!"

"Could not!"

"Could do!"

"And after all these years, they still haven't grown out of it," Simon said whilst listening to their ranting.

"ENOUGH!" he yelled at them. "Dave's probably waiting for us at home."

"Of course. We'll continue this tomorrow. But here's the number of the girl I managed to hook up with," said Alvin, handing Simon a slip of paper.

"Don't forget to test your phone game on her. You'll be surprised by the results. Now, I've got to go. Dave said I could sleep over at the Millers. My things are already there."

"Fine," Simon said, heading for home.

Brittany turned to face Alvin with a worried look. "You think he'll be able to take it?"

"I don't know, baby… I just don't know," Alvin replied in a sad tone.

Author's Note:

This story won't continue unless I have 5 reviews for each chapter. Sorry if I came off as demanding, but, I need inspiration right now...

The most important thing you can remember is to stay cool at all times.
The only person you have to impress is the one wearing your own shoes.
Live life on your terms and go out to entertain yourself.
The others will see how good of a time you are having and will join you.

~Paragon