yDear Julia,
You go to school! Oh, your family must be quite from the bourgeois class, ay? Well, these love triangles are very complicated so I am sorry to say that I do not know how helpful this answer will be to you. I would suggest maybe having a talk with your friends about this and see where it leads. I hope this helps you. I am horribly sorry that I cannot give you the answer that you are so in need of, for I too, am bound in the very same chains.
Éponine
P. S. We both are forever roses in misery.