"If you were a woman," Pansy says one night when they're still in the library with two butterbeer and a pile of essays to correct, "Potter would accept what's going on between the two of you."
If you were a woman he'd want to fuck you on his teacher desk, she means.
"If I were a woman," Draco says bitterly, "I'm sure I'd have better taste."
Pansy looks at him with a mixture of pity and amusement and that makes him feel even worse.