[A/N: Okay. You know what.
I have been told multiple times to put a warning on this for infidelity and that people hate Kanda and Lavi for what happened.
Here's my opinion.
No, there will be no warning. I'm not going to, it's not happening.
I'm sorry if someone cheated on you and it makes you upset but you know what, I'm sorry, it's not my problem.
I know that makes me sound terrible but I have a reason.
Kanda did not cheat on Allen.
There was no cheating.
There were not actually together.
Kanda is [physically] legal and consenting he can do whatever he wants to whoever he wants at the point in the story where he has consensual sex with Lavi- who is also legal and can do whatever he wants.
I understand if you're upset that Kanda did it because of what it did to Allen- but he was still not cheating.
You cannot go up to someone you are having aromantic sex with and accuse them of cheating for sleeping with someone else. That is not how it works, you will make an ass out of yourself.
I know I made Kanda and Allen have romantic feelings for one another throughout this entire story but that doesn't mean they were together up until a certain point. Just because two people have feelings for one another doesn't mean they are actually in a relationship.
You can fuck and love one another and not be in a relationship, I'm sorry, it's true. And if you are not in a relationship you are allowed to screw whoever you want. Hell, if you're in a relationship and you still want to screw someone obviously there's a problem with your relationship and it needs to be fixed or ended.
Kanda and Allen do not have a nice relationship when they are together. They are not loving and they are allowed to do what they want.
I know it seems like I'm too upset over this but it's happened too many times and it's irritating. I've got PMs and reviews over this and it's just really grating on my nerves.
Hating Kanda and Lavi for having sex is okay if you have a legitimate reason.
"KANDA IS CHEATING" is not a reason because he's "NOT IN A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP WITH ANYONE."
He had an aromantic sexual encounter with Lavi while having another aromantic sexual relationship with Allen.
If you want me to put this in any other blunt way then here:
Kanda and Allen were fuck buddies. Unless otherwise stated you are not under any obligation to abstain from promiscuity when you are in a "fuck buddy" relationship.
TL;DR Kanda can fuck who he wants get over it and stop messaging me about it.
`Vincent