Plot analys: Abusive relationships in Maximum Ride

I've said it before: Dylan is a stalker, which means Mylan/Dax is an abusive relationship. But it isn't the only absiive relationship within the series. Fax is as well. So is Jeb and Angel/The Voice's relationship with the flock. Below we have some of the warnings of an abusive relationship.

A more sophisticated form of psychological abuse is often referred to as "gaslighting." This happens when false information is presented with the intent of making victims doubt their own memory, perception, and sanity. Examples may range simply from the abuser denying that previous abusive incidents ever occurred to staging bizarre events with the intention of confusing the victim (Jeb, Anne).

1. They humiliate you, put you down, or make fun of you in front of other people. (Jeb)

2. They regularly demean or disregard your opinions, ideas, suggestions, or needs. (Jeb, Angel)

3. They use sarcasm or "teasing" to put you down or make you feel bad about yourself. (Fang)

4. They accuse you of being "too sensitive" in order to deflect their abusive remarks. (Fang, Angel)

5. They try to control you and treat you like a child. (Dylan, Angel, Jeb)

6. They correct or chastise you for your behavior. (Jeb, Angel)

7. You feel like you need permission to make decisions or go out somewhere. (Angel)

8. They try to control the finances and how you spend money. (Angel)

9. They belittle and trivialize you, your accomplishments, or your hopes and dreams. (Angel)

10. They try to make you feel as though they are always right, and you are wrong. (Fang, Angel, Jeb)

11. They give you disapproving or contemptuous looks or body language. (Jeb, Angel Fang)

12. They regularly point out your flaws, mistakes, or shortcomings. (Jeb, Angel)

13. They accuse or blame you of things you know aren't true. (Fang)

14. They have an inability to laugh at themselves and can't tolerate others laughing at them. (Jeb)

15. They are intolerant of any seeming lack of respect. (Jeb)

16. They make excuses for their behavior, try to blame others, and have difficulty apologizing. (Fang, Jeb, Angel)

17. The repeatedly cross your boundaries and ignore your requests (Dylan, Fang, Angel)

18. They blame you for their problems, life difficulties, or unhappiness.

19. They call you names, give you unpleasant labels, or make cutting remarks under their breath.

20. They are emotionally distant or emotionally unavailable most of the time (Fang)

21. They resort to pouting or withdrawal to get attention or attain what they want. (Fang, Angel)

22. They don't show you empathy or compassion. (Angel, Jeb)

23. They play the victim and try to deflect blame to you rather than taking personal responsibility. (Angel, Fang)

24. They disengage or use neglect or abandonment to punish or frighten you. (Fang)

25. They don't seem to notice or care about your feelings. (Angel, Jeb)

26. They view you as an extension of themselves rather than as an individual. (Jeb, Angel)

27. They withhold sex as a way to manipulate and control.

28. They share personal information about you with others. (Jeb)

29. They invalidate or deny their emotionally abusive behavior when confronted. eb)

30. They make subtle threats or negative remarks with the intent to frighten or control you. (Jeb)

- See more at: /11/relationships/signs-of-emotional-abuse#

Jeb, we already knew. That much is obvious. But it's alarming how many things Ange, Dylan, and Fang fit in to, too.

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