Becoming
Becoming Wicked is a long and painful process. First, you must be born so fundamentally different from those around you that you believe you will never escape the influence of that difference.
Next, you must find a cause. Believe in it so strongly that it blinds you to everything else. Defy anything, everything and everyone who stands in your way. Preferably, break off connections with your friends and family and fight alone. If you fall in love, fall for someone else's lover.
Yes, becoming Wicked is a long and painful process. But it's nothing compared to the process of becoming Good.