Step one, you say we need to talk.

Kagome needed to get out of the cave, and so she traveled South while her kids traveled West. She needed to talk to someone not so super close to her but cared about her. A friend.

She entered the wolf domain "Hey sister, what are you doing here?" One of his goofy looking brothers asked,

"Is Kouga in?" She asked with a small smile.

"Yeah, he is you wanna see him?"

"Yes, we need to talk"

The showed her the way even though she knew the way; this wasn't her first visit.

She entered the cave and waited for her longtime friend.