Sunday at Harper house...
Anne is cooking breakfast for Dicky so that he will be ready to go. Dicky left to go meet up with the rest of the crew. He had to go with Dawn, Kaila, and Kalvin to Dawn and Kalvins Photo shoot. Dawn and Kalvin go shoot in a galaxy background, they pose serious and happy. They were dressing hip hop dark clothes. The rest of us meet at the Morgan house.
Me: So, we just did the photo shoots but we have not done yours yet, Nicky.
Nicky: I know but I want to go stylish.
Kailee: I want to fist pump.
Morgan: Ok, lets get to it.
We started out side the building in a parking lot. They are doing serious poses and crazy poses. As i watch them I start to get a little pain and I also feel something not right on my body. I went to the bathroom and I saw blood on my underpants, it let me know that I am on my cycle. I clean it off and put on a pad and walk out of the bathroom to see the rest of the photo shoot. Then we went in to the building or Ricky ans Kailynns life casts. Ricky was first to get casted, they put machete and concrete on his face, stomach, and foot. They Kailynn got cast on her nose, face, and toes. They then started to look at each others casts and then we went to big lots. I had to get some feminine products for my cycle I stared dancing around the store to get rid of my cramps.
Nicky: Why, are you dancing like that?
Me: Because I just feel like that.
Kailee: Nicky, its her pee pee dance.
Me: Not pee pee, crampy. (I cover my mount) Please excuse my language.
Ricky: Oh, I know what your talking about, Ms. Desi.
Me: Ok, lets talk about this when we get home.
Kailynn: Yah, Please.
We paid for our thing we went home and I use a heat pad for my pain. Ricky calls Dicky and tells him about how very thing is going. I drink tea and take pms meds.
Ricky: Ms. Desi, what was all this stuff about?
Me: Its feminine, you dont want to hear about this.
Ricky: Ms. Desi, I have a sister, mother, and a girlfriend, and a sitter that is female. I know what girls have that boys don't.
Me: Ok, Its my cycle. Every time I start it, I get pain all of a sudden. I have had it since a month before my 10th birthday. And you don't want to know the rest.
Nicky: Yeah, because there are some time I hear that stuff and I don't like it.
Kailynn: You can talk about it with us.
Us females go into a room and we talk about what we get when we get older.
Kailee: Ooo, thats terrible for that time.
Me: It sure is but not all the time.
Kailynn: Some girls feel differently when they get older.
Me: Yeah, I learned when to do or not to do things like see other people naked and/or go to the potty. I learned more about privacy.
Kailee: Yeah, I learned to like boys and respect privacy.
It is night time and we cook food like pizza, spaghetti and mac and cheese. Dicky, Kaila, Dawn and Kalvin Come home. Dicky asked me if I was OK and i told him I was. Donte tells the kids to give me, Ricky, and Dicky some privacy so we can talk. Kailynn and Kaila asked if hey can come too, and Donte was about to say you too guys. They people left and it just me, Ricky and Dicky.
Dicky: So, Dez, why do we need to discuss this?
Me: Uh, because I just feel that way when I get pain monthly.
Ricky: Yeah, we have girls to get these too.
Me: We that happens I call it the crampy dance.
Dicky: Why, do you call it crampy, oh sorry you get up and dance the cramps off. Its just like we do a pee pee dance when we have to pee. All of us.
Me: Yeah, but boys don't have crampy organs like girls do. We do all have urine organs and other organs but not the same reproductive organs.
Ricky: We know and we don't discuss thing like that.
Me: I know, but we all are different. Lets pray.
Dicky: Ok, dear lord please help heal Ms, Desi and help her to respect other people for who they are and I would like he to learn to be strong, brave, and patient. In your name we pray amen.
Ricky and I: Amen.
We go upstairs to bed and sleep.
