Born in heaven, raised in purgatory, grew up in hell. Oh, and by the way, I'm bisexual (male), with a strong preference to men, although I'm perfectly capable of being turned on by a woman, even though there's no emotional content there, only physical, and only during close (sexual) contact. I was very confused during my teenage years, because I so very much wanted to be straight. Oh, and I had an even worse *physical* (hint) problem, related to my denial, that I'll never write about here, no, not in a billion years. I did work my way out of it, though (!). Email me if you know what I'm talking about. I'll be happy to help.