Arya is sixteen when Jon is officially announced missing in action after serving overseas for a year. She writes him emails, as suggested by her therapist, but never sends them. These are her pleas, her confessions, and her realizations. These are her draft messages.

Forgive my lack of talent for refinement. I've never been good with words. This letter is both my marriage proposal to you as it is the most practical way for me to know about your thoughts on the matter. Here I am, on my knees asking you to be my life companion and my most trusted advisor, to be the friend you had always been to me back when times were simpler and we were happier

When he tells Arya about Ygritte, she calls him stupid and hangs up the phone. He doesn't call her back. He's moving on, he tells himself. Except Ygritte with her brashness and loud mouth reminds him too much of Arya, and he doesn't think he is moving on at all. He is in love with Arya Stark, he finally knows.