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This chap may seem bit boring
But contains very important points
It may clarify most of the questions you have about Abhijeet
So although boring
Don't skip
CHAPTER 49
Nunca sera lo mismo otra vez
Daya entered inside the hospital with angry steps, holding a paper tightly in his hand and was about to move to Abhijeet's room when a nurse called him with
Excuse me...aap senior inspector Daya hain...right,?
Hmm
Aap ko Dr Manjula ne apney Cabin mein bulaya hai..
Haan me yahan..
Nahi unho ne kaha hai ke aap Abhijeet sir se milney se pehle un se aik baar mil lein to acha ho ga
Theek hai...
Daya took a deep breath fold the paper, kept it inside his pocket and moved to Dr Manjula's cabin
She was writing something in a file looked up and said
Aaiye..bethiye...
Daya sat down with the face still having stormy expressions
AP bohat ghussey mein lag rahey hain?
Abhijeet ne apne Resignation ka soch liye tha..us k laptop se muje ye mila
And he forwarded the paper towards her
Dr Manjula looked at the printed page and said
Or aap ye print karwa ke le aye
Mujhe Abhi se is barey mein baat karni hai
Dr Manjula folded the paper again and kept it aside then said
Hmm...me ne abhi thori deir pehle un se baat ki
Daya looked up with hope
Dr Manjula continued: dekhiye jesa k humein pehke hi shak tha..he is suffering from kind of nervous breakdown
Kind of? Daya asked confusingly matlab aap diagnosis nahi kar payi?
Actually…Dr Manjula stopped and after a minute started taking a deep breath
Actually It is no longer a recognized medical term, so, technically, there is no way to diagnose a nervous breakdown. Generally we try to identify contributing factors or medical conditions that may be causing the so-called nervous breakdown. Ab sawal hey ki yea nervous breakdown kya hey aur kyun hota hey
Daya nodded questioningly
A nervous or mental breakdown is a term used to describe a period of intense mental distress. During this period, you're unable to function in your everyday life.
Daya asked in confused way : matlb mental distress to asehi..mtlb hota hey aqsar to breakdown taq baat kaise..
Dr Manjula nodded assuringly and continued
This term was once used to refer to a wide variety of mental illnesses, including depression anxiety acute stress disorder
She paused then carried on factually
Although nervous breakdown is no longer considered a medical term, it's still used by many to describe an inability to cope with life's challenges and in some cases intense symtoms of stress
Daya frowned but nodded
She gave a small smile and simplified
It's generally viewed as a period when physical and emotional stress become intolerable and impair one's ability to function effectively.
Ab yea kyun hota hey, bohat sare reason ho sakte hey
Daya asked jaise..
Dr manjula added: jese persistent work stress or recent traumatic event, such as a death in the family or serious financial issues, fir man lijiye any major life change, yea kahiye poor sleep and inability to relax & chronic medical conditions….Inmey bahut si reason Abhijeet sir k liye present hey, traumatic event- unki chronic memory problem- major life change- stress aur unki medical reports anusar sleeping problems bhi.. Sath mey panic atack aur anxiety ki history bhi to hey or Ab hum confirmed hue unki symptoms se
Daya asked: applog abhi ko kaise..mtlb yea samjh kaise aya ki abhi ko problem..mtlb symptoms Jo keh rahi WO...
Dr manjula nodded understandingly
Dekhiye nervous breakdown ke symptoms different logon mein different tareekon se saamney aatey hain…. The underlying cause can also affect what symptoms one experience.
She paused to judge if her listener can take all this in
Daya gave a nod, So she continued
These symptoms can be emotional, behavioral, and physical….Feelings of depression or anxiety that are new or more overwhelming than before yea Feeling overwhelmed or Shutting down and being unable to participate in normal activities may be bcz of guilt or bcz of inability to react…Iski alawa …Bahut ki dil mey ek darr sa baith ta hey due to which they have Trouble thinking, concentrating, making decisions, or getting tasks done.
Daya sighed feeling like his head reeling with information
Dr manjula noddes sympathetically
I know this can be too much for you, per ager sahi maine mey samjhau to Serf yeahi nahi...Patients start Being socially isolated and withdrawn while Experiencing mood swings that may be extreme…Yea kahiye Decreased self-care, like no interest in personal appearance…Sath mey Changes in sleeping habits along with Changes in eating habits, causing weight loss
She stopped for a second then said
Aur ek bit uncommon sign symptom hey…Jo Mr Abhijeet mein dekhne ko mila
Daya interrupted with kya
She stated in a serious voice
Patients can start Feeling depersonalized - nervous breakdown ki Jo stress hey, it can lead to an indifferent or cynical attitude toward work and colleagues, and may cause an affect that seems impersonal or uncaring.
Mtlb abhi ki reaction isliye...
Jee
Daya was looking so unsettled & bewildered
Dr Manjula continued
Dekhiye...inspector Daya...zada tar ye symptoms thorey uncommon hain...ye symptoms unhi logon mein zada hotey hain jin ko apney kaam ke doraan stress ka samna karna parta hai...or Abhijeet g ke liye to un ki pehchaan hi un ka kaam hai...to un ke sath aisa hona laazmi hai...or jin logon ko ye hota hai..wo apni family ke sath bhi bahut rude behave kartey hain...
Daya seems to understand the point but she didn't stop
aur agar aik aam admi ki nazar se dekha jaye to...depression se guzarney waley patients ko un ke ghar waley bhi aise hi describe kartey hain ke wo bohat uncaring hain..apney alawa kisi or ka nahi sochtey..selfishly behave kartey hain
Daya immediately protest
Abhi selfish nahi hai..
Aap samjh nahi rahey hain baat ko...depression or nervous breakdown ke jo patients hain...zaruri nahi hai ke un ki nature mein selfishness ho...
She searched for correct words then started
actually ye bhi nervous breakdown ka hi aik sympom hai…yahan tak ye bhi dekha gaya hai ke jo maa baap apney bachon per jaan chiraktey hain…un mein jab ye symptoms atey hain to wo bachon ki well being tak ko nazarandaz kar dete hain...wo ye tak dekna chor dete hain ke un ke bachey ne khana khaya…wo apna tiffan le ke gaya ya nahi…yahan tak ke jis bachey ko wo khud le k atey jaatey they school se…us ki zimmedari bhi kisi or per daal dete hain ….koi koi bahut violent bhi ho jata hai in cases mein
Daya was really looking scared, but Dr Manjula smiled with
But the good news is Aap ke bhai ke sath aisa kuch nahi honey wala
Kia matlab?
Me ne aaj un se baat ki…to me ne unhein instigate karne ki bohat koshish ki…or jesa reaction me un se chah rahi thi wesa reaction to nahi hua…per jis reaction se hope ban sakti hai wesa zarur hua
Seeing Daya still confused, she continued
Actually…me chah rahi thi wo kisi wajah se ghussa dikhaein…unho ne dikhaya …per me chah rahi thi k un ka ghussa aap logon per ho..apney kaam per ho…per unho ne mujh per hi dikha diya
Aap per Abhi ne ghussa kiya? Kiun?
Dr Manjula said in light tone: me ne aap ko le ke kuch kaha tha…per wo patient doctor confidentiality hai…aap chor dijiye
Daya noded confusingly, then said: mujhey sach mein kuch samjh nahi aa raha
Dr Manjula smiled a bit with: actually me ne un se ye kaha tha k aap un ke bhai jese hain…bhai nahi..
Daya immediately frowned but doctor Manjula continued: or us per wo bohat zada irritate ho gaye…phir me ne un se kaha ke agar wo Rohit ko shoot na kartey to ye kaam aap ko karna parta
Per doctor…ye wo kabhi maan nahi sakta hai..us ke liye wo
I know…or me yehi dekhna chahti thi k un ke ander wo caring nature ab bhi hai ya…I was judging ke un ki condition kitni severe hai…me ne jese abhi aap ko kaha ke…depression us had tak ja sakta hai ..but the good news is k Mr Abhijeet k ander wo aag hai wo pyar hai…
Seeing Daya trying to hide his eyes she said trying to show confidence
haan shayad kisi wajah se wo dono hi ubhar ke bahir nahi aa pa rahey hain…wo ghussa karney lagey per phir aik thakaan…aik fatigue sa hai un ke ander…wo un ko khul ke apna koi bhi emotion dikhaney nahi de raha…but agar wo ghussa un ke ander hota hi nahi…to phir wo zada bad news hoti humarey liye…lekin un k ander emotions hain jo bahir nahi aa rahey to hum unhe bahir laney ka rasta to nikaal hi saktey hain…to abhi aap un se ja ke mil lijiye
But doctor...me us se kia baat karun?
Aap logon ka rishta kitna purana hai ?
G? yehi koi 17 18 saal purana …
Aap ko kisi ne kabhi tuition di hai is mamley ki?
Kis maamley ki?
K aap ko apney bhai se kia baat karni hai
Nahi…per...
Mr Daya wo insaan same hi hai…haan shayad thora depressed hai…per is ke liye aap khud ko change kar k un se baat mat kijiye…aisa nahi hai ke wo pagal hain ya un ka dimagh nahi chal raha hai..right?
Daya nodded
to agar aap un se khud ko change kar ke baat karein ge…matlab maan lijie aap kisi baat per un se ghussa hain per aap wo ghussa un se chupa ke un se bas achey se baat kartey rahein ge bas is liye k aap un k kisi rawaiyye ko le k pareshan hain…isi liye un se baat nahi kartey hain…per wo to aap ko jaantey hain na…to unhein samjh aye ga k Daya mujh se kuch chupa raha hai…to is se do effects hon ge…
seeing Daya's questioning look, she carried on
aik ke me ab itna unimportant ho gaya hun k mujhe kuch bataya nahi jar aha hai or Dusra kia me sach mein us ko samjh nahi pa raha hun…kia me sach mein pagal hun me ye hun me wo hun…in dono mein se koi bhi positive effect nahi hai…haan ye ho sakta hai k jab aap ghussa dikhaein ya react karein to…apney mood swing ki wajah se wo aap per hi ghussa ho jaein ya phir emotional ho jaein or ro dein…but is se atleast cheezein bahir aaein gi...is liye aap true rahiye apni feelings ke sath…
she paused gave Daya time to absorb..then said
jese aap ke dil mein aata hai aap wese hi react kijiye bas aik cheez ko dehaan mein rakhiye ga…ke aap ko unhein chorna nahi hai…aap un se ghussa kijiye ga lariye ga..chahey kabhi kabhi baat mat kariye ga…lekin un ko chor ke mat jaiye ga k tum apney rastey me apney rastey…rishtey ko banaye rakhiye…chahey jo react kijiye... bohat zada ghussa aa jaye to ghoonsa bhi maar saktey hain…Dr Mishra or doctor Aditya se baat karney ke baad
Daya smiled a bit with; wo Abhi ka department hai
Dr Manjula too smiled then said: or aik cheez…ye jo department division hai aap logon ka…us ko same hi rakhiye ga…matlab…Abhijeet bohat beemaar hai…muje bohat care karna hai us ki…achanak se sab kuch mujhe hi sambhalna hai…us ko aik dam se bubble wrap kar k rakhna hai…ye sab please mat kijiye ga…
Seeing Daya looking overwhelm, she simplified
un ko apna space dijiye un ko apne pairon per khara honey dijiye…haan pass mein rahiye per chalney dijiye…or aik zaruri baat…wo agar kabhi violent hotey hain mood swings ke doraan to ye soch ke khamosh mat ho jaiye ga k chalo acha hai…atleast ghussa to dikha raha hai..me is ka ghussa she jata hun…aise mat kijiye ga…aap jese pehle react kartey aye hain is situation mein bilkul wese hi react kijiye ga…
she smiled a bit
me ne suna hai dr Salunkhe se…k jab Mr Abhijeet ka memory loss wala incident hua us ke baad se wo bohat violent ho jatey they…cheekhty chillatey they…baqi sab to unhe space dete they k chalo acha hai apna dard bahir nikaal raha hai…per aap ulta unhe hi suna dete they
Daya looks down shyly
Usi se aap logon ki dosti bani hai…wo jo aap dono ke beech ka flavor hai us ko miss mat honey dijiye…ye as a doctor or as a human meri request hai
Daya nodded smiling
She forwarded the paper towards him with: chaliye…ye lijiye resignation…or ja ke toot pariye…best of luck
Daya nodded with: thank you doctor…then asked: Abhi ko kia baad mein bhi ana parey ga counseling ke liye? Matlab me aaj us ke discharge ki baat karne wala hun..Discharge le k ghar jaiye…aap kuch dino ki chutti le kar un ke sath ghar mein hi rahiye…un ko Smother yea overwhelm mat kijiyega… per un ke as paas hi rahiye…or rahi counseling ki baat to us ke liye me aap se regular contact mein rahun gi…aap se kuch sawal karun gi aap se un ke barey mein bohat kuch janney ki koshish karun gi…or aap sab kuch mujhe sach sach bataein ge…or ye soch kar k is baat se Abhi ka impression na kharab ho jaye…koi baat mujh se chupaiye ga nahi…me un k liye larki nahi dhund rahi hun jo aap ko muje ghalat information deni ho
Daya chuckled a bit and she continued
phir us hisaab se me kahun gi…ke un ko meri counseling ki zarurat hai ya un ka ye personal counselor hi un k liye kaafi hai
Daya gave an embarrassed grin and moved out after thanking her once again
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