"Why don't you just weigh out the good stuff about the relationship against the bad stuff? I mean, that's what I did when I first started...weighing stuff,"
- Monica, 6.24.
Weigh
Good Stuff
- Fantastic sex.
- Lives across the hall = convenient.
- New relationship excitement.
- He's a good guy.
- Cute.
- Funny.
- Smart. Probably the smartest person I know.
- Secret relationship = so sexy.
- He's challenging = also sexy.
- He says the sweetest things.
- Feel really happy with him.
- He seems really happy when he's with me (possibly just the sex?).
- It feels right.
- He's one of my best friends
Bad Stuff
- He's bad at relationships.
- Needy.
- Smoker.
- Scared of commitment.
- High-maintenance.
- Ross.
- Ross and Emily.
- Group dynamic?
- What happens if we split up?
- What happens if we DON'T split up?
- That dance.
- We don't want the same things (does Chandler even know what he wants?).
- He's the guy who peed on me.
- He's one of my best friends.