International Men's Day falls on November 19 every year. The day is commemorated to appreciate all the men in our lives and their contribution to making society a better place. The day aims to highlight positive male role models and raise awareness around men's well being
There's so much hype about women's day but many of us didn't even know men's day.
Let me ask the girls here how many of you have wished your male friends on this day?
I bet very few
The beauty of all men is that each has a special quality, and it is incredible when you discover their true heart.
But there's severe discrimination going on with the boys...
Oh yes
.we girls shout always that we are discriminated but lets see from the other side.
Let's feel their pain
Please forget ' mard ko dard nahi hota'
Hey boy
What are you doing now? Don't you have a job? Still in dad's hotel?
Probably every man has to face this infallible question if he is unemployed.
The colorful days of spring are cut short by the burning of unemployment.
The word eve teasing is heard more. Because we have repeatedly said the word 'respect for women' from a young age.
Hearing Adam teasing sounds incongruous to the ear. But the word does not become a lie!
A rural boy, a bit unsmart, may be whose hairstyle is not exactly urban, he also has to come to the city for college or something and face Adam teasing. The only difference is he is a man, so people do not gather to cover their shame.
Anyone has seen the face of a man in a ladies compartment of train? The women look at the poor man as if they are aliens, not human beings. He went down to the next stop,then only found peace.
However, these same men left their seats in general compartment for the woman with baby in her lap, with their hard-working tired legs, got up again in the crowded train.
Female have reserved seat or compartment but males don't but we shout that we are equal
Not everyone in the crowded train looks for the female body. Some people even sit on the floor so that they don't touch that sacred body
Males also face sexual abuse but its still a joke for many
Breakup? Is separation only for men? Don't girls start the process of break-up? The boy just does private tuition, no job un vicinity suddenly after promises of love, the girl does end about five years of relationship just because he does not work in the government sector or good earnings is not in his pocket.
The boy is not called by his friends with sympathy ..but instead get teased...
The boy who woke up every morning for his lover, now how can anyone look for him in a lonely house? Um, of course, yes, I know this, why it's something known in advance.
Men are punished if they break up with the promise of marriage. But girls are not guilty of the same guilt.
Men also feels used but they're not allowed to show weakness
Working, self-respecting women also want money in alimony during divorce. Then who knows where their self-respect goes
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Jobless girls can dream of marriage
Working girls can dream for marriage
But men should must have a earning for being married, but still we claim we are equal
Boys have been listening since they were little ... Men don't cry. So sweat is the only way to get out of the salt water of their eyes?
Have you ever seen a sweaty man carrying more weight than himself? The only longing in their eyes then is to carry some cash in his bag.
According to the newspaper, a two-year-old girl has been raped.
The father hugged his daughter while he was sleeping on the bed. He said in his mind, there are no more human beings, they have become monsters.
The whole masculinity was blamed. Shame felt the whole male race except the rapist.
Today the monsters are so wild not only female but males too need protection, but no one thought much about that
The boy wakes up at night with no money in his pocket or lost his job at an inopportune time.
Domestic violence is not only for females, but in daily soaps and movies husbands getting beat up is a comedy
But in reality
He also gets the scar but
Under eye cream is never applied to the thick ink under his eyes.
If a woman speaks of her grief, everyone looks at her with sympathy. Speaking of the same sadness, people say to the man ... Are you wearing bangles?
The mentality of picking up this unnecessary sympathy goes away when you think of yourself as a human being, not as a woman or a man.
Just as some boys laugh when there are red spots on girl's clothes, some boys also buy sanitary napkins like their brothers and fathers.
Just as a rapist is a boy, a group of men rescue the girl.
But how many girls had rescued a boy from any problem?
Every moment a man worries about his lover, his wife when she is late, its not always possessiveness but tension
A father stands at an intersection with his old bicycle, when his daughter returns from university.. or late night tution
When an alcoholic husband beats his wife, some men in the neighborhood come forward and stop the drunk.
One should never judge everyone.
Don't generalize
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Not everyone throws acid in the mouth. Some people even paint a kiss on the burnt skin with care.
We respect the men who keep separate cells in heart for mother, wife, sister, mother-in-law. One does not hurt the other by being influenced by his words.
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We respect those men who do not close their eyes when they see injustice being done to any human being.
We respect all people with spines. Happy Men's Day. Be well If you are good, daughters, wife, mothers are also good.
Shout out to all men who despite all odds and obstacles paved the way for themselves in this over-ambitious world. May you get more strength and love.
real man is one who can cry freely, express his emotions without judgement, and live a life without the burdens of patriarchy
A real men is a women's best friend. One who will always support her in every situation, One who will never let her down.
He is the one who will always make her feel comfortable whenever she will feel insecure.
He is the one who will always try to inspire her to do what she really loves. He'll always love to listen what she want to express,her emotions, will try to understand her feelings.
A real man will always make sure she always feel as though she's the most beautiful woman, he'll always let her express her views.
And a real woman..a perfect lady? She should go ahead of feminism and demand the true equality
She can console him when he cries, she can be the shelter where he can show his weakness
She will make him feel secure that's its okay to cry, okay to feel weak, okay for being imperfect.
A man -A son A Father,A husband,A grandfather, A Friend!
You put your family above your own self. You work hard so we can live well.
So all men
(Real men)
I know
It's not easy to be a Man.
It's not easy to sacrifice everything for his family.
It's not easy to work day and night for his family.
We know
It's not easy to silently bear the pain of not being able to fulfill the wishes of his children.
It's not easy to see your wife in an old saree at a family function.
It's not easy to hide your tears when you see your child in pain.
We know
It's not easy to be a shoulder for everyone.
It's not easy to be the family glue.
We know
Their world is crueller and nastier than we can imagine.
It's not easy to be them.
Happy Men's Day to all the men out there.
We love when you are Caring, Emotional, Confused and it's okay to be bad driver and good cook. You have the right to Express,wear pink and Cry if you need to. You are beautiful, pretty and sensitive.
To all the men being objectified to be more macho and manly. Be whatever you like to be.