E immediately sent M a screenshot of her conversation with the accused individual, expressing her anger and newfound dislike for that person. M once again advocated that the accused was probably very stressed at the moment and that E should take that into consideration, but E was now quite angry that the accused had been so patronising towards her and had blocked her even though she had been very polite. E decided to tweet the accused expressing her anger, as far as E was concerned, the accused was a self righteous dickhead that hadn't given her a chance to respond to their patronising message and this was the only way to express to them their displeasure. E told M of their intentions, M told E not to tweet them but E felt that she should be allowed to tweet whatever she wanted on her own account and wouldn't tell M what she can and can't tweet, so she tweeted the accused along with a screenshot of the patronising message...That was when E and M really started to argue.
M really lost her temper and began to swear at E, E restrained herself from swearing back and explained that she was angry. In hindsight, E had considered that perhaps she should have just suggested they both take some time to cool off, but unfortunately that isn't what happened and things escalated beyond anything that either E nor M could have predicted. E and M had never fought before, E had witnessed M having a meltdown once and was there to support her, E had told M that she loved her and M had told her she loved her too and explained that she felt like people were trying to tear them apart, because they had threatened to stop M from seeing E again because E had wanted to stay on the phone longer with M than was allowed. But now, as the situation escalated, both E and M found themselves struggling to keep their cool.
M began to criticise E for going against what she wanted, "Why couldn't you have just stayed out of it and not fucking comment"?! M sent to E. E didn't appreciate that message as she felt that she should be allowed to tweet whatever she wants on her own account. "I felt bad for him, I was polite to him and he blocked me for no good reason" E responded, hoping that M would be understanding. But at this point, M was beginning to feel overwhelmed and was struggling to be rational as her frustration mounted, messaging back that the accused had every right to block her, but E didn't agree. "But I was nice to them" E replied, trying to remain respectful towards M. "I told you not to comment but you did anyway, and then you went and messaged them! This is all your own fault E, you reap what you sow, it doesn't matter if you're as sweet as honey to them, they have a right to block you. They did nothing wrong. You did, take accountabillity." M wrote back, tears of frustration welling up in her eyes, she could feel herself beginning to spiral. E was also getting incredibly angry, she felt as though M was trying to control her and was being unfair by criticising E for commenting and messaging the accused since M was the one who sent the google document and suggested that E message the accused in the first place. In E's opinion, she had already taken accountabillity for her actions by apologising to M for doing something that upset her, but in that moment, she was feeling controlled and angry, so she responded with "Well yes he did and I can do whatever I want." That was the straw that broke the camel's back, M became completely overwhelmed and, feeling like she'd lost any control over the situation, blocked E on twitter.