To the Iranians
Look I don't really know what I'm doing or if it'll fly, but I'll do my best so don't run me down.
We're gonna have to be real here, the regime ain't going anywhere and a foreign country's not gunna swoop in to your rescue. So we're gunna have to settle with a proposal, and it's not gunna be as free as North America by any means. Sorry.
You say you worry about female security and to weed out the bad men. That they have to be escorted by a male relative. Instead unless they so choose, can you provide a security button for each to press if they feel are in danger. I would say to just call for an escort to travel but they probably don't want it to feel like a date, so can you offer patrol spreaded out so they can be quick to respond? And in pairs so they can over see eachother? A third is no good for a two on one scenario is not ideal.
Also the government ain't gunna admit to nothing so forgiving and moving on is gonna be necessary. I know not ideal but the point of this letter is to make it better not perfect.
You want to keep the hijab rule, but they have them off at this time. Can you offer one day of no hijab requirement? See it as giving them an opportunity to choose for themselves. And will show them that you do care for them, giving a day of free from oppression for understand it's unbearable to be stuck with a headscarf by force each day and let them have a load off. Choosing is more loyal than forcing. Forcing equals resentment and rebellion. Maybe a Friday and call it freeday. If caught not wearing one other than that day, can you be more lenient? Maybe send her home for a week with female counselling telling her this is the reality but atleast we have that. You give them no school, can you give them school books and to let them learn at home? Maybe a teacher on a webcam or female tutors running to and frow their homes. Can you set up and preserve jobs for female only requirements? Kind'a like a female only society with government protection around not within. Legistics can be sorted between you.
Can you offer $5000 for the dead lady who started it all to her family to build an alter to memorialize the day between themselves. But no more words against you? Sorry it sounds like hush money but this is what we got okay.
And in return not to ask for more, unless you choose so.
Datong
