It was another late night, but Alexandria couldn't sleep.
As her son was asleep in the attached private room, this
was one of the few moments she knew she could spend with him.
But, for some reason, she couldn't bring herself to walk
into the room.
She looked at the table in the sitting room, covered with
the papers she was trying to grade. She sighed. Somehow
student analysis of the 2000 election, even when the comments
were ridiculously wrong with heinous grammar, just weren't
grabbing her interest. It probably didn't help that when
Andrew was well, he used to enjoy her reading him the worst
of the worst from her student's paper. A few times she
had to stop herself from thinking, "Andrew would laugh out
loud at this."
For all intents and purposes, while she still had four children,
she didn't have her Andrew anymore.
Hearing a light knock at her door, she turned. "Oh, hey
Samantha."
"Hey, Alex. How are you holding up?" the young woman asked
as she entered the room, pushing her brown hair back over
her shoulder.
Alexandria smiled at the woman. She had liked Samantha since
Samuel had first brought her home to 'meet the family'. She
and Samantha had actually become good friends, not something
that she had expected from someone twenty-eight years her
junior. In fact, they became such good friends that they
stayed in contact even after Samuel dumped her.
It was one of the few times Alexandria really wanted to
beat some sense into one of her children. Literally.
"I have all the medical bill information here," Samantha
said. "It looks like you could have a nasty fight with
your insurance company. Especially due to the nature of
the accident."
Alexandria sighed as she looked at her friend and family
CPA. "I know. Part of me thinks that I should just make
Samuel pay for everything."
Samantha snorted, "He ought too! Drew's his brother, and
it's not like he has a family of his own."
"And on that, amazingly, the two of you agree," Alexandria
conceded. "But, it's the principle of the thing, you know?
I mean, it's for unplanned crap like this that I pay for
insurance in the first place."
"Yeah," Samantha said as she sat on the floor next to
Alexandria. Noticing the quiet music in the room for the
first time, the younger woman asked, "What are you listening
to?"
"Tori Amos. Her Under the Pink CD."
"And the indie queen strikes again," Samantha laughed
quietly. "I guess this means that you are handling this
better than I thought. No Emm Gryner."
Alexandria looked at her friend with a wry look on her
face. "Actually, I'm handling it worse than you think.
I overplayed 'Acid' about a week ago. I've moved from
sad and depressed to angry and depressed. The next
stage is just depressed."
Samantha smiled sadly, "And I take it that would be
Andrew Spice?"
"'Christopher' on constant repeat," Alexandria agreed.
After a few minutes of silence, Samantha looked her
friend in the eyes. "Alex, it's just a stage, you
know. You read the stuff of racial identity development.
It's just those crazy teenage years." She squeezed
her friend's hand, "It will be okay."
"Do you know why I picked Tori to listen to?" Alexandria
asked.
"No."
The older woman smiled, although it didn't reach her
eyes. "It's this song, called 'Pretty Good Year.' To
borrow a line from Roberta Flack, it's like she 'found
my letters and read each one out loud.' Or, at least,
she read my mind."
"What to do mean?" Samantha
"I mean listen to the lyrics. 'They say you are
something in your formative year. So hold onto
nothing, as fast as you can. Well, still, pretty
good year.' Can you honestly say that people haven't
uttered that to me so many times in the past two
weeks? Can you honestly say that I haven't said
similar stuff to myself?" A few tears ran down
Alexandria's face as her voice faded away at the
end.
After wiping the tears away, she said. "But I
can't complain. Sure, my son doesn't acknowledge
me as a part of his life, doesn't remember the
name I gave him and doesn't remember me. And sure,
his head doctor has decreed that I can only visit
with him when he's asleep. But I still have all
four of my children. After three months and two
amazingly awful accidents, I still have all four
of my children."
Samantha slowly nodded, getting her point. "Huh.
Pretty good year," she said quietly, realizing
the irony.
Alexandria nodded in return. "Pretty good."
This Side of Living
Living in a Private Room - chapter six
When he came back to awareness, it was after nightfall.
He wondered what time it was. With his mental flashes,
physical therapy from hell, and lots of visits from
strangers he remembered, he couldn't keep track of
the days or the hours. Because it was so quiet,
his guess was that it was sometime after visiting hours.
He could vaguely hear music coming out of the
sitting room. It sounded like a piano was playing.
As at least one member of the family was in the sitting
room at any given time, the music didn't alarm him.
He was, however, curious as to who was in there.
As he slowly shifted in his bed, he heard a familiar
voice come from the chair next to him, "You're awake.
Good. I thought you might sleep through everything,
dimwit."
"Grandma?" Yusuke asked as he turned to face an
older woman who looked and sounded exactly like
Genkai.
The woman smiled gently. "How are you feeling?"
she asked quietly.
"Better," he responded, just as quietly. "Those
torture sessions everyday are making me a little
stronger at least. I can make it from one
side of the room to the other on my own two
feet before passing out. I found that out
the hard way," he felt the need to add.
"Good," the old woman said in rather pleasant
voice. The voice was so pleasant that Yusuke
was totally shocked when she stood up and hit
him upside the head, saying, "Now get your
head together so this family can move on
with its life."
"Ow!" Yusuke objected. "Genkai, you crazy
old hag, what the hell was that for?"
The older woman's eyes narrowed, but she
answered, "It was for you and your stupid
self-indulgence!"
"Self-indulgence! What-"
"You've been hiding from everything in that stupid
little dream world of yours, making everyone jump
through hoops and go through hell, while you don't
have to be engaged in anything. Everything that
isn't pleasant can happen to 'Andrew' and not
you. Well, it's time this stopped. It's stressing
out your family and destroying your mother!"
At that moment, Yusuke was completely confused.
"Look, it seems to me that everyone is handling
everything pretty well-"
"Because they don't want to fall apart in front
of you, dimwit!" the old lady exclaimed. "Look,
your mother has been through hell over the last
year, most of it being your fault! She's about
to fall apart at the seems, and that's killing
your father. The least you can do is get
off your sorry ass, stop hiding in your
dream world, and deal with your issues head-on!
Damnit, you're an Ikeda! Start acting like one!"
Yusuke had rarely seen the old woman in such
a snit about anything. That alone made him
uneasy. What added to his unease was the
confusion he still felt, deep down. Confusion
in an area of his spirit that he had begun
to refer as 'the Andrew translator' in his
head. The part of him that understood Andrew's
world was confused as well, but for a different
reason.
It was that confusion that prompted the young
man to ask, "When did you start caring about
Andrew's mother, anyway?"
There was an awful silence after that question.
Then, Genkai began to quietly answer, "I
could probably tell you that I'm worried
about Alexandria's state of mind because it
affects my son's state of mind, and you'd believe
that. But I told you a long time ago, I
wouldn't lie to you, so I won't start now.
"The reason I'm worried about your mother
is because I realize the ways that I'd added
to her burden over the years. When she began
to see Mitsuru I wasn't...happy about it.
Middle-aged people can make some stupid
mistakes as well, and me not seeing the
good in Alexandria behind her skin color
well that was mind. Fourteen years and
four grandchildren later, I had begun to
see that I was wrong. No one saw more
clearly or better understood the struggles
and joys in front of this family than
Alexandria.
"Unfortunately," Genkai sighed as she
continued, "Alexandria understood the least
the emotional pull all of this would have on
the family. Especially when one of her own
children picked up some of my prejudice and
began to deny her."
The older woman seemed to look older for
a moment as she continued. "I wouldn't
have wished this last year on my worst
enemy; I am especially saddened that it
happened to a daughter-in-law that I
treated badly because of my own prejudice."
"So," the old woman finished, "it is because
of all of that, that I want you to get
over it and begin to be there for your mother
for a change. Just to let her back into
your life for a little while." After a
few minutes, she added, "It would mean
that I could stop worry about both of
you for awhile...dimwit."
Yusuke looked at the old lady that was
one of the best teachers he'd ever had,
surprised. In all that he had learned from
her, he never expected to learn from her
mistakes. In any reality. "I'll try.
I can't promise. I really don't understand
everything that is happening in my head.
But I'll put everything into that I have."
'I'll try to bring my walls down without
someone almost dying this time,' he added
in his head.
- to be continued -
As her son was asleep in the attached private room, this
was one of the few moments she knew she could spend with him.
But, for some reason, she couldn't bring herself to walk
into the room.
She looked at the table in the sitting room, covered with
the papers she was trying to grade. She sighed. Somehow
student analysis of the 2000 election, even when the comments
were ridiculously wrong with heinous grammar, just weren't
grabbing her interest. It probably didn't help that when
Andrew was well, he used to enjoy her reading him the worst
of the worst from her student's paper. A few times she
had to stop herself from thinking, "Andrew would laugh out
loud at this."
For all intents and purposes, while she still had four children,
she didn't have her Andrew anymore.
Hearing a light knock at her door, she turned. "Oh, hey
Samantha."
"Hey, Alex. How are you holding up?" the young woman asked
as she entered the room, pushing her brown hair back over
her shoulder.
Alexandria smiled at the woman. She had liked Samantha since
Samuel had first brought her home to 'meet the family'. She
and Samantha had actually become good friends, not something
that she had expected from someone twenty-eight years her
junior. In fact, they became such good friends that they
stayed in contact even after Samuel dumped her.
It was one of the few times Alexandria really wanted to
beat some sense into one of her children. Literally.
"I have all the medical bill information here," Samantha
said. "It looks like you could have a nasty fight with
your insurance company. Especially due to the nature of
the accident."
Alexandria sighed as she looked at her friend and family
CPA. "I know. Part of me thinks that I should just make
Samuel pay for everything."
Samantha snorted, "He ought too! Drew's his brother, and
it's not like he has a family of his own."
"And on that, amazingly, the two of you agree," Alexandria
conceded. "But, it's the principle of the thing, you know?
I mean, it's for unplanned crap like this that I pay for
insurance in the first place."
"Yeah," Samantha said as she sat on the floor next to
Alexandria. Noticing the quiet music in the room for the
first time, the younger woman asked, "What are you listening
to?"
"Tori Amos. Her Under the Pink CD."
"And the indie queen strikes again," Samantha laughed
quietly. "I guess this means that you are handling this
better than I thought. No Emm Gryner."
Alexandria looked at her friend with a wry look on her
face. "Actually, I'm handling it worse than you think.
I overplayed 'Acid' about a week ago. I've moved from
sad and depressed to angry and depressed. The next
stage is just depressed."
Samantha smiled sadly, "And I take it that would be
Andrew Spice?"
"'Christopher' on constant repeat," Alexandria agreed.
After a few minutes of silence, Samantha looked her
friend in the eyes. "Alex, it's just a stage, you
know. You read the stuff of racial identity development.
It's just those crazy teenage years." She squeezed
her friend's hand, "It will be okay."
"Do you know why I picked Tori to listen to?" Alexandria
asked.
"No."
The older woman smiled, although it didn't reach her
eyes. "It's this song, called 'Pretty Good Year.' To
borrow a line from Roberta Flack, it's like she 'found
my letters and read each one out loud.' Or, at least,
she read my mind."
"What to do mean?" Samantha
"I mean listen to the lyrics. 'They say you are
something in your formative year. So hold onto
nothing, as fast as you can. Well, still, pretty
good year.' Can you honestly say that people haven't
uttered that to me so many times in the past two
weeks? Can you honestly say that I haven't said
similar stuff to myself?" A few tears ran down
Alexandria's face as her voice faded away at the
end.
After wiping the tears away, she said. "But I
can't complain. Sure, my son doesn't acknowledge
me as a part of his life, doesn't remember the
name I gave him and doesn't remember me. And sure,
his head doctor has decreed that I can only visit
with him when he's asleep. But I still have all
four of my children. After three months and two
amazingly awful accidents, I still have all four
of my children."
Samantha slowly nodded, getting her point. "Huh.
Pretty good year," she said quietly, realizing
the irony.
Alexandria nodded in return. "Pretty good."
This Side of Living
Living in a Private Room - chapter six
When he came back to awareness, it was after nightfall.
He wondered what time it was. With his mental flashes,
physical therapy from hell, and lots of visits from
strangers he remembered, he couldn't keep track of
the days or the hours. Because it was so quiet,
his guess was that it was sometime after visiting hours.
He could vaguely hear music coming out of the
sitting room. It sounded like a piano was playing.
As at least one member of the family was in the sitting
room at any given time, the music didn't alarm him.
He was, however, curious as to who was in there.
As he slowly shifted in his bed, he heard a familiar
voice come from the chair next to him, "You're awake.
Good. I thought you might sleep through everything,
dimwit."
"Grandma?" Yusuke asked as he turned to face an
older woman who looked and sounded exactly like
Genkai.
The woman smiled gently. "How are you feeling?"
she asked quietly.
"Better," he responded, just as quietly. "Those
torture sessions everyday are making me a little
stronger at least. I can make it from one
side of the room to the other on my own two
feet before passing out. I found that out
the hard way," he felt the need to add.
"Good," the old woman said in rather pleasant
voice. The voice was so pleasant that Yusuke
was totally shocked when she stood up and hit
him upside the head, saying, "Now get your
head together so this family can move on
with its life."
"Ow!" Yusuke objected. "Genkai, you crazy
old hag, what the hell was that for?"
The older woman's eyes narrowed, but she
answered, "It was for you and your stupid
self-indulgence!"
"Self-indulgence! What-"
"You've been hiding from everything in that stupid
little dream world of yours, making everyone jump
through hoops and go through hell, while you don't
have to be engaged in anything. Everything that
isn't pleasant can happen to 'Andrew' and not
you. Well, it's time this stopped. It's stressing
out your family and destroying your mother!"
At that moment, Yusuke was completely confused.
"Look, it seems to me that everyone is handling
everything pretty well-"
"Because they don't want to fall apart in front
of you, dimwit!" the old lady exclaimed. "Look,
your mother has been through hell over the last
year, most of it being your fault! She's about
to fall apart at the seems, and that's killing
your father. The least you can do is get
off your sorry ass, stop hiding in your
dream world, and deal with your issues head-on!
Damnit, you're an Ikeda! Start acting like one!"
Yusuke had rarely seen the old woman in such
a snit about anything. That alone made him
uneasy. What added to his unease was the
confusion he still felt, deep down. Confusion
in an area of his spirit that he had begun
to refer as 'the Andrew translator' in his
head. The part of him that understood Andrew's
world was confused as well, but for a different
reason.
It was that confusion that prompted the young
man to ask, "When did you start caring about
Andrew's mother, anyway?"
There was an awful silence after that question.
Then, Genkai began to quietly answer, "I
could probably tell you that I'm worried
about Alexandria's state of mind because it
affects my son's state of mind, and you'd believe
that. But I told you a long time ago, I
wouldn't lie to you, so I won't start now.
"The reason I'm worried about your mother
is because I realize the ways that I'd added
to her burden over the years. When she began
to see Mitsuru I wasn't...happy about it.
Middle-aged people can make some stupid
mistakes as well, and me not seeing the
good in Alexandria behind her skin color
well that was mind. Fourteen years and
four grandchildren later, I had begun to
see that I was wrong. No one saw more
clearly or better understood the struggles
and joys in front of this family than
Alexandria.
"Unfortunately," Genkai sighed as she
continued, "Alexandria understood the least
the emotional pull all of this would have on
the family. Especially when one of her own
children picked up some of my prejudice and
began to deny her."
The older woman seemed to look older for
a moment as she continued. "I wouldn't
have wished this last year on my worst
enemy; I am especially saddened that it
happened to a daughter-in-law that I
treated badly because of my own prejudice."
"So," the old woman finished, "it is because
of all of that, that I want you to get
over it and begin to be there for your mother
for a change. Just to let her back into
your life for a little while." After a
few minutes, she added, "It would mean
that I could stop worry about both of
you for awhile...dimwit."
Yusuke looked at the old lady that was
one of the best teachers he'd ever had,
surprised. In all that he had learned from
her, he never expected to learn from her
mistakes. In any reality. "I'll try.
I can't promise. I really don't understand
everything that is happening in my head.
But I'll put everything into that I have."
'I'll try to bring my walls down without
someone almost dying this time,' he added
in his head.
- to be continued -
