In addition to my musings,someone added something that caught my eye,here it is:

From: Window Girl
Here's what I think. I think that Beatrice and Lemony were engaged to be married, but when Lemony was framed for Olaf's crimes and had to run away, Beatrice married Mr. Baudelaire. I think it's possible that Lemony stole the sugar bowl from Esme Squalor and she blamed Beatrice for it, and that it's possible Esme was in love with Mr. Baudelaire. So when Esme tells the Baudelaire children that she wants to steal from them like Beatrice stole from her, she may either be talking about the sugar bowl, Mr. Baudelaire, or both.

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AngelBlac1 aka Alenairam Sazo