Selphie always found Quistis rather bossy. She didn't like how controlling she was and she definitely felt like all her freedom was taken away from her when Quistis was around. Quisty was a goody-good, always saying that Matron said they shouldn't do this and that, but none of them ever listened to her, especially Selphie.
Now, Zell was another story. Always off eating sand, too busy to get into fingerpaints with her and Irvine. She never would have thought she'd end up falling in love with Zell, Squall being the only one in her mind right now. None of the others would think of it, either. Irvine and her were just too close, it seemed like they were inseparable.