What are you going for?

Surely you're upset (let's assume), and you may have every right to be, but that only means you need to blame others and not yourself.

You certainly don't want to be accused of committing a senseless and possibly selfish act - and this book will help avoid that, plus greatly cut down on the post-mortem gossip.

On the next page is a checklist of People and Things to Die For. To answer your first question, NO, it's not acceptable to circle everything and everyone, then rush off to the bedroom and pull the trigger.

Curl up in the corner (if you're not already), calm down, and circle all of the things that are bothering you (or did) on the next page. If you cannot find a reason on the list on the next page, you can make one up and write it in the space provided.