With Martin it wasn't really an 'I want you now thing'. It was more a progression of our relationship from friends to more than friends.
He asked me out one day when we both had the day off so he took me to the movies and we saw 'Catch Me If You Can'. Not the best film to see with a prospective girlfriend as she's just gonna be drooling over Leonardo Di Caprio the whole movie but aside from that it was quite fun.
Obviously not wanting to move to quickly and scare me, Martin just draped his arm over the back of my chair through-out the movie but wasn't apposed to the fact that I rested my head on his shoulder near the end.
After the movie had ended we went for a walk in Central Park and grabbed some hot dogs from a vender. It's not that Martin's cheap, in fact he offered to take me to a very fancy restaurant for lunch, I suggested the hot dogs.
As we were walking through the park he took my hand and we made conversation about work and home. It started raining so we made a dash for my apartment.
I invited him in and we drank coffee and talked some more. Eventually it got late and he said he had to go but then I kissed him and all that changed.
After we started a 'relationship' it felt like the only time I saw Martin outside of work was when we were in bed. He didn't take me out and we never just talked.
Suppose Jack never took he out either but he had his reasons, Martin didn't. I'll tell you more about Jack if you really wanna know…
