Miguel Rivera remained currently in a state of emotional turmoil. His emotions were all over the place. In addition, a friend with who he'd good rapport had unexpectedly, without warning, ended up blocking him.
He didn't understand why, though. They hadn't had any fights! They always got along well! Heck! They spoke to each other a few days beforehand. So this came out of nowhere. All he knew was he went to send them a message and found they had blocked him. No warning or reason at all. He contacted another friend to ask his now ex-friend why they did it? All they said was that it was complicated and personal. This didn't relieve Miguel at all.
On the contrary, it made him feel even worse. Finally, so that he didn't have a solid reason for why he was down a friend, he spent the night before crying himself to sleep.
He wouldn't see the family therapist till Wednesday. So it'd be a few more days until he could truly work through his emotional pain. Instead, he was consumed by confusion, heartbreak, and a massive fear of losing more friends for no reason.
His family assured him they'd never hurt him again. Doing their best to help him by saying a real friend wouldn't have done that. But, even though they spoke kind words, he still wasn't in the right state of mind to pay them any mind.
Either way? He'd be lost in an emotional storm for a few days. Heartbreak doesn't heal overnight. It's also hard to achieve closure without any reason why this happened in the first place.
Hopefully, talking to his therapist would help him through this. But, until then, let his heartbreak take its own course and time to heal. That's all he could do in the meantime.
You're not exempt from hurting another's feelings.
One thing I want to make clear, a truth many of us overlook? Not one person on this planet is exempt from hurting another's feelings. We are all guilty of hurting someone's feelings.
Whether intentional or unintentional, there is no human alive who hasn't hurt someone else's feelings one time. So please, when someone is telling you, you've hurt their feelings? Please do not deny it and say you have never done that.
For you have whether you meant to or not, you're just as guilty as anyone else. So please try to remember there are no exceptions when it comes to hurting someone's feelings.
