Things I should avoid doing:

Being unfilial.

Performing the rituals carelessly.

Being outspoken.

Putting my needs before those of others.

Failing to memorise my schoolwork properly.

Of the seven virtues considered necessary for a female I fail to comply with five of the seven. The other two-gracefulness and benevolence, come naturally to me, but they are considered lesser virtues. Apart from these, the virtues demanded of females, involve so many rules that I am hardly aware of until I have broken them…