Contract:
Made this day _June 12, 2019_
BETWEEN
_Goode_
(Dominant)
_Misty Day_
(Submissive)
THE PARTIES AGREE AS FOLLOWS:
The following terms are a binding contract between the Dominant and the Submissive.
FUNDAMENTAL TERMS:
The fundamental purpose of this contract is to allow the Submissive to explore their sensuality and their limits safely, with due respect and regard to their needs, their limits, and their wellbeing.
The Dominant and the Submissive agree and acknowledge that all that occurs under the term of this contract will be consensual, confidential, and subject to the agreed limits and safety procedures set out in this contact. Additional limits and safety measures by be agreed in writing.
Adherence to the above warranties, agreements and undertakings (and any additional limits and safety measures agreed under clause 3 above) are fundamental to this contract. Any breach shall render it void with immediate effect of each party agrees to be fully respectful to the other for the consequence of any breach.
Everything in this contract must be read and interpreted in the light of the fundamental purpose and the fundamental terms set out in clauses above.
ROLES:
The Dominant shall take responsibility for the wellbeing and the proper training, guidance, and discipline of the Submissive. They shall decide the nature of such training, guidance, and discipline and in the time and place of its administration, subject to the agreed terms, limits, and safety measures.
If at any time the Dominant shall fail to keep to the agreed terms, limits, and safety measures set out in this contract or agreed additionally under clause 3 above, the Submissive is entitled to terminate this contract.
Subject to that and the previous clauses above, the Submissive is to serve and obey the Dominant in all things. Subject to the agreed terms, limits, and safety measures set out in this contract or agreed to under clause 3 without any question or hesitation.
COMMENCEMENT AND TERM:
The Dominant and Submissive enter into this contract upon the date above. And abide by the conditions without any exceptions.
This contract shall be effective for three months. At the end of the term, the Submissive and Dominant can discuss working out another contract, or part ways.
AVAILABILITY & LOCATION:
The Dominant and Submissive may agree upon a time to meet every week, or bi-weekly at the AFTERGLOW.
All scenes will take place at the AFTERGLOW.
If the Submissive happens to see the Dominant anywhere outside of AFTERGLOW, they are to act as if they do not know the Dominant for their own safety, and the dominants.
No scenes are to take place outside of AFTERGLOW.
SERVICE PROVISIONS:
The following service provisions have been discussed and agreed and will be adhered to by both parties during the Term. Both parties accept that certain matters may arise which are not covered by the terms of this contract or the service provisions, or that certain matters may be renegotiated. In such circumstances further clauses may be proposed by way of amendment. Any further clauses or amendments must be agreed, documented and signed by both parties and shall be subject to the fundamental terms set out by above clauses.
DOMINANT:
The Dominant shall make sure the Submissive is comfortable at all times and take into count their safety and health at all times. The Dominant shall not partake in any activities that are in the HARD LIMITS of the Submissive, or anything that may cause long term injury to the Submissive.
The Dominant accepts the Submissive as theirs, to own, control, dominate and discipline during this term. The Dominant may use the Submissive's body at any time during a scene for how they see fit.
The Dominant is required to provide the proper training and guidance in how to serve the Dominant.
The Dominant shall maintain a stable and safe environment in which the submissive may perform their duties to serve.
The Dominant may discipline the Submissive as necessary to ensure the Submissive fully appreciates their role of Submissive to the Dominant and to discourage unacceptable conduct. The Dominant may use whatever means, within the Submissive's limits to discipline them.
In training and in the administration of discipline the Dominant shall ensure that no permanent marks are made upon the Submissive's body nor any injuries that require medical attention.
In training and in the administration of discipline the Dominant shall ensure that the discipline and the instruments used for the purpose of discipline are safe and clean, shall not me used in such a way as to cause serious harm, and shall not in any way exceed when it is judged necessary by the Dominant.
The Dominant shall not loan their Submissive to any other Dominants during the time of this term.
The Dominant may use any form of restraints, handcuffs, or bind the Submissive at any time during the time of a scene for any extended period of time, given regard to HARD LIMITS.
The Dominant will ensure that all equipment used for the purposes of training and discipline shall be maintained in a clean, hygienic and safe state at all times.
SUBMISSIVE:
The Submissive accepts the Dominant as their master/mistress, with the understanding that they are property of the Dominant, to be dealt with as the Dominant pleases during the Term.
The Submissive shall obey the rules set out in this contract to this agreement.
The Submissive shall serve the Dominant in any way the Dominant sees fit.
The Submissive shall accept without question any and all disciplinary actions deemed necessary by the Dominant and remember their status and role in regard to the Dominant at all times.
The Submissive shall accept whippings, floggings, spanking, caning, paddling, or any other discipline the Dominant should decide to administer, without hesitation.
The Submissive will not touch the Dominant without their permission to do so.
SAFEWORDS:
The Dominant and Submissive recognize that the Dominant may require the Submissive to take things to a level of uncertainty, and the use of SAFEWORDS are for safety.
GREEN means go, good, content with what is happening during a scene.
YELLOW means slow down, back off, not as hard, or that it may become RED soon.
RED means stop, and the scene will end. If the Submissive or Dominant use RED, the other party will stop everything they are doing and talk about how to make it better and administer aftercare.
Both parties can and always have the option to voice any of the previously stated SAFEWORDS during a scene.
CONCLUSION:
Both the Dominant and Submissive have agreed and read over the contract. Both freely accept the rules and terms.
_Goode_
DOMINANT
_Misty Day_
SUBMISSIVE
APENDIX 1: QUESTIONAIRE
Answer the questions as honestly as possible.
I like to be dominated.
Yes.
I like to receive pain during sex/BDSM and seeing results of it (marks/bruises, makeup ruined by tears, etc.) afterwards.
I think so…
I could be submissive now and be dominant another time.
Yes.
I am willing to try anything once, even if I don't think I will like it.
Defiantly!
I enjoy feeling like prey hunted by a predator.
No.
The idea of being tortured, is appealing.
Yes… or at least I think so.
I feel the need to serve my partner and treat them with the highest respect, addressing them as a superior.
Yes.
I like to be degraded and humiliated by my partner sometimes.
Uhm, yes?
I enjoy playing a different age than what I technically am.
No.
I enjoy being verbally degraded or called humiliating names.
Yes, I think so.
I would like to be tied up completely during a scene.
Yes.
Being treated with little or no respect during BDSM arouses me.
Maybe, a little?
I enjoy being kept as a pet: in a cage, eating out of a bowl, being petted/caressed, etc.
Uhm, maybe?
Being a part of a group of slaves that serves one Master/Mistress, sounds like a life that would suit me.
No.
Talking back to one's dominant in a teasingly disobeying way, should be part of the sub's fun.
I think so, yes.
I'd like to submit to my Dominant 24/7 and see serving them as my life's purpose.
No.
Being in fear of what my Dominant is going to do to me physically is arousing.
Not really.
I like to be totally helpless and at my Dominant's disposal, physically unable to resist what they do.
I don't know.
It's no big deal when things I try turn out bad for me. It's a part of the risk and it's a necessary part of discovering what works and what doesn't.
I agree somewhat.
I have plenty of fantasies I would like to try.
Yes.
Being physically restricted during BDSM scenes is arousing.
Yes.
I enjoy acting like a pet animal.
I'm not sure.
I like being forced into submission, much more than submitting spontaneously.
Yes.
APENDIX 2: HARD LIMITS
No acts involving fire play.
No acts involving urination or defecation.
No acts involving cutting or blood.
No acts involving children or animals.
No acts that involve leaving permanent marks on the skin.
No acts involving breath control.
No activities that involve the direct contact to electricity.
APENDIX 3: SOFT LIMITS
To be discussed and agreed between both parties.
Which of the following acts is the Submissive okay with?
_X_ Bondage of any kind
_X_ Handcuffing
_X_ Rope as bounds
_ Being bound the whole scene
_X_ Hands in front
_X_ Hands behind back
_X_ Ankles being bound
_X_ Elbows being bound
_X_ Wrists to ankles
_X_ Suspender bars
_ Tied to furniture
_X_ Blindfolded
_X_ Gagging
_ Suspension
_X_ Spanking
_X_ Paddling
_X_ Whipping
_ Caning
_X_ Biting
_ Nipple clamps
_X_ Ice
_ Hot wax
_X_ Other types of pain
