storge: the ancient greek word that refers to familial love, a natural or instinctual affection
- a protective, kinship love that is likely experienced with family members
- can be applied between family members, friends, or colleagues
- driven by familiarity and need
- a general term to describe the love between exceptional friends, and the desire for them to care compassionately for one another
- sometimes referred to as the love between partners who are committed and plan to have a long relationship together, particularly as a fundamental relational foundation after an initial infatuation
storgic lovers
- a relationship between two people that gradually grew out of a friendship
- storgic lovers sometimes cannot pinpoint the moment that friendship turned to love
- want their significant others to also be their best friends, and will choose based on similar goals and interests
- place importance on commitment
- find that their motivation to avoid committing is to preserve the trust between the two partners
- passionate, sexual intensity is of lesser importance than in other love styles
- advantages of storgic love may be the level of how one loves their family and understands each other; the two people who are deeply devoted to one another can feel the intimacy that they share
- the main disadvantage of storgic love is the large time investment and the loss of that investment if the friendship ends
Contains information from the Wikipedia article on Storge.
