They don't close their eyes when they say grace. Everyone holds hands and looks at each other, because it's family they are grateful for. Bulda starts off, looking at Elsa when she mentions new beginnings; she looks at Anna when she speaks about remembering.
Most of the people here don't have parents – this, Elsa knows. She gives Anna a look, but her friend says nothing, keeping a smile up for the whole meal.
Elsa's spent enough time with her to know it's fake, but she doesn't pry. Anna will share, when she's ready.