Here's the next chapter which I hope you like. As I wanted Arianna to explain everything in a blunt and technical way here that's what she does. It is done in such detail to ensure he knows all he can now in preparation for what will come with his wives in the future. Also note these are Arianna's opinions and not what everyone should think if it is not their wish to do so. As Harry in this story is a lot maturer in how he behaves for his age he is able to understand what she tells him when it is done in a literal and techinical way. Please read and review thanks to everyone for the continued support love Angel x
Looking at Harry she could see him still looing at the information about Tracey Davis in awe. "Harry come over here. Would you like anything to eat or drink cause we need to talk about the changes in your life now?" she asked him sitting at the desk motioning for him to join her there.
"I'll just take some tea and toast please!" he said to the elf who'd he'd previously called in. "Right away Master!" said the elf leaving then returning with what he'd asked for moments later.
"Ok so Harry please tell me in your own words what you think a woman needs to feel special in her life?" she asked him as he looked up shocked by the question. If he'd expected anything that question wasn't it.
He thought about it for a while before answering. "Well I know that women need kisses and cuddles to feel special. I also know that some women who don't have a life or much else to do feel that they needd money to feel special. Money is not a privilage it's something which is earned much like respect and women could do with knowing this fact. I need to understand why women say that us men are all the same. I've heard it when they're talking to Uncle Sirius or Dad and I don't get it!" he said shocking her with his quie honest appraisal of what women do and do not need.
"Well Harry not everything is as black and white as that any more. Most women years ago did marry a man for his prosperity or money but that's not the case anymore. Marriage contracts are old and outdated in the muggle word but will likely never be outdated here. Nowadays people marry others in their contracts not because they want or need his money but because they have their own money and like the way he is as a person. Now then I will show you some pictures I'm giong to conjure and I want you to tell me what you think the best gifts to give a woman are!" she said conjuring various photos.
One had chocolates, jewellry, flowers, teddybears and books. The other had a clock, someone giving someone else a hug, a letter full of high flown sentiments, people communicating and people dancing.
"Well it's obvious that second image is the right choice. The things in the first image can be given at any time but the things in the second image such as time, affection, romance and so on do look like the things everyone should strive to give their partner. Am I right?" he asked Arianna who smiled brightly.
"Well done Harry you got it in one. Now I need to ask you what you know about what happens to a women as they mature? Please note that if you don't I will be telling you rather bluntly what happens. I need to say it bluntly so you'll understand fully what happpens" she said clearly as he thought about it.
"I know girls get all weird and cry when they're not even sad. I mean it's crazy to do that. It's like they want to just cry or something. If they want attention or indeed more attention all they need to is ask. They don't need to be all stupid and cry to get it becasue anyone with the slightest brain would know that this is most certainly not the way to go about getting it. Us guys find you hard enough to understand we don't need you crying for no reason as well. It's unfair to us as you never seem to think that we might be able to help you if you ever thought to tell us why you were crying in the first instance!" he said suddenly passionate and angry about it.
This did make Arianna laugh loudly. She wanted to be odd about it but simply couldn't. "Harry life is a lot more complicated then that. What I will say is that all girls have a lot of hormones in their bodies however when they go through puberty these hormones increase exponentially. This means that sometimes women cry because they need to for stress related reasons and sometimes women cry because their hormones which men don't have in such a high amount cause them to be so emotional. We get emotional and cry a lot sometimes because we know men will never be able to physically actually understand what we go through no matter how hard they try to do so. It's not their fault as they are not women but it still hurts. Now do you know what happens to a girl in puberty?" she asked as Harry reeled back in shock.
"I am so sorry I said what I did before I had no idea women had so much to deal with hormone wise. I do know what happens well some of it at least. To be honest it's common sense really. I look at Hermione now and see that in her chest area she is flat but then you are not so it only makes sense that she will get breasts in maturity. Also I know that men love them as I overheard some guys at Dad's work about how some woman's breasts were really sexy. Other then that and that they obviously get taller I don't know anything else!" he answered honestly.
"Ok Harry yes you are right as we hit puberty our breasts develop, we become taller and our hips widen in order to enable us to carry children in the future should we wish to do so. Now I'm going to be blunt for the moment because I need to be in order to get you to understand more about what happens to women during puberty and beyond. Now as we all know you are so mature for your age in ways and don't know things in other ways but that's what I'm here for to educate you. Now as we've said during puberty a woman develops breasts but once they are finished puberty their breasts will stop growing and stay the same size for the rest of their lives. Now every month us women get what is referred to as either a cycle or period. Did you understand everything I said so far?"
"Yes I did please tell me more and thank you so much for all of your help as this will help me to fully understand all of my wives."
"It's quite alright and please feel free to ask me any question no matter how blunt. I am here to help you in answering any and all questions you may have. Inside the female body as you can see in this diagram here we have the womb and the womb are the fallopian tubes and these here are the ovaries. During puberty and for the rest of our lives till we turn fifty or so once a month the lining here inside our wombs builds up and then sheds. When this liining is shed we loose a lot of blood and this is called a period. We get them once a month and these can last anywhere between four days to a full week. For some women they can last over week as well. Now every month an egg is released from the one or both of the ovaries and is sent down the fallopian tubes to the womb where it waits for the male sperm to impregnant it. When this happens a women will fall pregnant and have a baby. Most of the time because this doesn't happen the egg attaches itself to the womb lining and then the lining as a whole sheds resulting in the bleeding. Do you need to ask me anything right now?" she asked him as he looked so interested in all she was saying.
"Wow I imagine it must get messy with all that blood and whatnot. How do you guys stop it ruining your clothes?" he asked her curiously.
"Well women have a few options as to what they can do to stop the blood getting on their clothing. This here is a pad which sticks to the inside of your underwear and soaks up the blood for you so it doesn't get all over your clothes. These come in two types disposable or rewashable ones you can keep which are good for the envrionment. The disposable pads or sanitary towels should be changed once every four hours or whenever they are full. The pad you can keep and rewash to use again and again can stay on you from morning until night without being changed until the night time. The reason for this is because they are deisgned to soak up much more blood then a normal pad you can throw away afterwards. Next if pads are not something you like to wear then you may choose to use a tampon which you place inside yourself and change every four hours. I prefer pads myself. Now during this time of the month as we refer to it women often become very emotional and angry because we get shooting pains across our backs and tummy's which come with a period and are called menstrual cramps. Women at this tme often crave certain foods and may use either a hot water bottle or some pain killers to get rid of the pain" she said bluntly so he would understand it all.
"I am so sorry you all have to go through this and every month as well. That's not fair at all. Obviously us men will never always understand you ladies but how can we best help you at this time of the month as we wouldn't want you to be angry with us or at least too angry with us anwyay?" he asked smiling at her.
"Thank you Harry that means a lot. Now what I should have said earlier is that no two women are alike as is the way they deal with their periods or how their periods affect them. What works for one women may not for another and this is ok. We don't want you to say you understand because it will piss us off as we know you never could. All you need to do is ask us if there is anything you can do to help us. Give us tummy rubs, back rubs and any massage you can. Kiss us, cuddle us and make us feel as special as you can at thsi time. If we get emotional and angry we will say things that either don't make sense or that we don't mean. We just need you to understand that we rarely mean anything we say in anger at this time and to take offence at it is childish and not allowed. At this time with whatever we are going through it makes sense that we will say or do the wrong things so you are never allowed to get offended at what we say or do. If you need to ask us why we said or did something please do as it shows you want to try and help which means a lot. As long as you try that's all we can ask of you" she said happily as he cried slightly hugging her close.
"Arianna if you ever need to talk you know where I am. I may not always understand you or indeed my wives but at least that I know what happens now I can sure try! Let's go tell Dad I'm alright now!" he said kissing her cheek and leaving the room in joy.