OK, Blu, open your envelope sweet love, Jimmy says. Blu smiles as she notices Jimmy and Jey have the same gold rosed envelope. As they pull out the gold paper, the trio read the sacred and emotional feelings Jimmy and Jey wrote while Blu was sleeping, a lot of it came just from Blu's casual conversations with them. So in a way it's actually ALL OF THEIR HEARTFELT WORDS/VOWS. HOW BEAUTIFUL Blu says in tears as she reads in unison with the loves of her life...
" RELATIONSHIP VOWS"
The following individuals,
{Jonathan Solofa Fatu},
{Joshua Samuel Fatu} and
{Blu Rainn Mckenna Fatu}
We Freely enter into this relationship agreement which will begin August 22, 2007 to extend for the rest of our lifetimes, and NEVER terminate. We are defining our relationship as ONE LOVE, ONE MIND, ONE BODY, ONE SPIRIT and ONE SOUL. If we should ever choose not to continue our relationship, we are to part from each other Peacefully, Respectfully, and as whole and free caring individuals, who will continue to Love and Cherish one another as the Soul Mates and Best of Friends we are and Always have been and will be!
{Signed}
Jonathan Solofa Fatu
Joshua Samuel Fatu
Blu Rainn Mckenna Fatu
Dated: August 22, 2007
We freely enter into this Everlasting Loving Relationship, choosing to live in the NOW with each other and remaining Open Hearted and Open Minded to the future expansion of our family. Love and relationships take conscious and consistent efforts to maintain and flourish.
We are free to make commitments and accept total responsibility for our actions. Our freedom comes from the personal expression of our own power. No one can take away our power to be ourselves. We choose to help empower each other, not to own each other or possess each other. We choose to LOVE, HONOR and RESPECT each other.
We will be as truthful and reliable as we can be. We will not agree to do things with each other unless we truly want to, yet we will be respectful of, and sensitive to each others needs and feelings. When we want something from each other we will ask clearly, not hint or expect to read each others minds. We will not create expectations in each others heads concerning us or our actions, then blame each other for their unfulfillment. We will share our love, joy, and caring feelings with each other.
We will never use our words against each other, nor divulge our private thoughts and actions to others without consenting each other first. We will communicate with each other what "privacy" means to us, and will accept each others definition of "privacy" for us. Any actions or words that relate to something the three of us said or did together should be considered private unless we have discussed it and agreed to reveal our actions or thoughts to others.
We will care for one another when one is sick or hurt, no matter if it's physically, emotionally, or mentally. We will count on each other for strength and emotional support when one is down and this is expected from each one of us.
We are separate and unique individuals who choose to enrich and cherish each other. Ultimately, though, only we can choose to be happy or not, fulfilled or not. We are equal to each other, not more nor less. We will not compete with each other and play "I win, you lose" games.
We will enjoy each others different qualities and work towards "win-win" situations. We will be proud of each other and not take each other for granted. We will accept each other as one is, and not try to change those aspects of ourselves. We will keep our minds open and our boundaries flexible.
We will support each others growth processes. We will not attack each other in private or public when something occurs that we do not like. We will instead accept it as a part of who we are and rationally discuss it with each other in private to more fully understand who we are. We will remember each others love and constancy and communicate this to each other. We will not judge each other on our past relationships, good or bad. Nor will we hold on to negative issues or grudges. We will enjoy sharing hopes, dreams, and plans for the future with each other now.
Our time together will remain a high priority in our lives. We will continue to value our time and will make conscious efforts to ensure we have as much time for each other as we need. We will also recognize that we need separate and alone time too. We will respect each other's right to be apart and alone sometimes and not take it personal. We also have friends and interests that may not always be in common with each other. We will not be possessive or jealous of our time away from each other. Recognizing the fulfillment and joy we receive from each other, benefits the three of us.
We will be open to uncommon experiences with each other as well. Our careers are also very important to us and we will remain understanding when job demands temporarily take a high priority in our lives. When this happens no matter how difficult it may be, we will share the same love respect and concern for each other.
When problems occur, We will work with together to resolve them as soon as possible. When we are upset or conflicted, we will center ourselves, clarify our feelings, and determine our issues before confronting each other. Only then will we approach each other to discuss and fix these issues. We will never make threats of breaking our commitments to each other, leaving, or asking each other to leave.
We will never intentionally physically harm each other nor threaten to. We will not expect either of us to be perfect. Occasionally we will get frustrated, stressed and disappointed. But we will not reject nor attempt to control each others individuality. We accept that we will have times of anger, sadness, fear, and pain, and will want and need each others emotional support. We will not feel we are attacking each other when one expressess frustrations or bad feelings.
We will use sexual intimacy as a way to express our love and inner selves to each other. We will not withhold sex to punish each other, nor use sex to control each other. We will continue to value our sexual intimacy and will be open to our sexuality and needs. We may not agree with every desire we have, but we will be open to new experiences. However, we will not force each other to do things we are uncomfortable with. We will not be intimate with anyone else unless we are comfortable with it. If we feel threatened, we will love and reassure each other and listen to one another. However, we will not control each others actions if we have unreasonable fears or a need to have power over each other.
We will be responsible for supporting each other and we will share what we can with each other to the best of our abilities. We have personal property and will respect and care for each others personal property, as well as our common property, as if it were separately our own. We will make agreements with each other concerning mutual financial matters. We will not control each other with money, nor will we be controlled money. We also will consult with each other before attempting to change our place of residence.
We commit ourselves to growing, changing and creating a conscious future with each other. We will do our utmost to live up to the spirit and sacred meaning of these vows.
Dated: August 22, 2007
Witnessed by:
{Jonathan Solofa Fatu},
{Joshua Samuel Fatu}
{Blu Rainn Mckenna Fatu}
*Bishop Lafayette Mateusz
*Bishop Abela Mateusz
Now...I pronounce you as Mr. And Mrs. Fatu, the Bishop says, Jonathan and Joshua, you may each kiss your Beautiful Bride. Oh wait...Excuse me Bishop, The Bishops son Lafayette Junior reaches Blu a purple heart shaped pillow, Jimmy and Jey eyes widened as they see Blu take the black diamond infinity rings off the pillow, places them on their fingers one at a time. Jimmy I Pronounce You MY HUSBAND! Jey I Pronounce You MY HUSBAND! I LOVE YOU BOTH SO MUCH IT TAKES MY BREATH AWAY.!,Blu says as she kisses each husbands finger with the ring on it...now you both may kiss your bride, Blu says as the Bishop and his family roars with laughter and standing applause... We love YOU Mrs. Blu Rainn Fatu, Jimmy and Jey both say, we love you very much!