How To Be Homosexual In A Homophobic World- Sai
(A/N: Okay, I can't claim responsibility for this section, Mikey and his boyfriend JJ wrote it for me)
Be proud of what you are. If you don't accept yourself- nobody else will.
Accept that not everyone will treat you the same when they find out- some will just avoid you and others will cling too much, just to show they are 'cool with it' when they're obviously not.
Don't hate people who hate you- it's a prejudiced world out there and it really is too much trouble to go round hating them all.
Despite what many people think and say, you can have heterosexual friends and they're just that- friends.
Don't reject all members of the opposite sex. Just make sure they know you're not… into them in that way. After all, what girl doesn't dream of the quintessential 'gay best friend'.
Ignore any odd looks you get when you go out as a couple- you'll probably never see them again so… who cares?
Make sure you're actually gay- just because you think someone the same gender as you is good looking it doesn't mean you'd actually want to be with them. Ask yourself, can you see yourself in a loving and meaningful, possibly sexual relationship with them? If the answer is no- then you're probably just indulging in some harmless fantasy.
Most importantly- ignore everyone else. If you love your partner and they love you… everyone else can just get the hell gone.
Sai