What would you do if the man you loved was getting married and the bribe to-be were not you? I'm not sure I know the answer to that question. I guess nobody can give me the right answer either.

Caroline received a wedding invitation from her ex-boyfriend. Although Caroline looks tough outside she is just as brittle inside as I am. Yes, she is happy with her boyfriend now and they are a wonderful item together. Yet I know Caroline still likes his ex a great deal. They are still mutual friends now but I know the wedding invitation did hurt her deeply.

She pretends not too care but I know it is not true. He was the first guy who made her felt foolishly in love yet he was the same guy who hurt her too and left a scar in her heart. The relationship was not going smoothly so ending it was a relief to both parties. But who could understand the pain?

I don't know how to comfort her. I wish I could help but I really don't know how. And that was why I decided to let go of Damon. I don't want the friendship to blossom into a deeper relationship because I don't want to spoil what we have shared. I just want us to be simple friends. I don't want to be his buddy either because I don't want to share his problems. I don't want to hear his love relationships with other women and I don't want to receive any wedding invitation from him. That's because I'm a runaway soul. Keeping a distance from him is safe. At least he will always be my fantasy and dream. A fantasy and dream I always treasure.

Both of us need to carry on with our lives and that's what we are doing. Learning to let go is not an easy task but it is a step that we need to and will conquer.

To Caroline and all the heart broken souls out there, I wish to share with you this lovely article..

LEARN TO LET GO COMPLETELY

Learn to let go completely. Although letting go is NEVER an easy task, there is always a reason for it, as there IS a reason for everything. And you will never discover why until the time you do it without strings attached. There is a saying that goes, "If you really love someone, set her free. If she comes back to you, you are meant to be." Easier said than done, indeed.

Learn to let go completely. Love longs for happiness, the happiness of BOTH parties involved. Letting go may SEEM to benefit only one, but in time, you will discover that you, too, ARE happy letting go. Until then, you will NEVER find your own happiness.

Learn to let go completely. Love longs for peace of mind AND of heart. You do not want an inner war, do you? Nor do you want to wage an invisible war? Peace means "less words, less hurt, MORE understanding, MORE love". It IS that simple.

Learn to let go completely. Until then can you only love AND be loved again...

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It is not easy but we can definitely do it!